“I thought I was too old to change. I was wrong.”
When I was in my 50s, I thought I had alcohol all figured out. I wasn’t a “problem drinker,” just someone who enjoyed a glass of wine most evenings. But over time, I noticed little changes: waking at 3am with a pounding heart, feeling foggy in the mornings, my skin losing its glow.
It never crossed my mind that alcohol might be the culprit – until I took my first proper break.
That short pause changed everything. I slept deeply for the first time in years. My energy returned. My mood lifted. And, most surprisingly, I realised how much of my life revolved around a drink that wasn’t actually doing me any favours.
If you’re in your 60s or beyond, you might be thinking, “It’s too late to change.”
But here’s the thing: it’s never too late to give your body – and your mind – the gift of an alcohol-free break.
Here’s why…
7 Reasons to Take a Break
1. Sleep Like You Deserve
Alcohol might help you nod off, but it interferes with restorative REM sleep. As we age, we naturally get less deep sleep – so losing even more can leave us drained, forgetful, and irritable. Just a few weeks off the booze can restore a natural, restful sleep pattern.
2. Rediscover Your Skin’s Glow
Alcohol is dehydrating and inflammatory, leading to puffiness, redness, and fine lines. Without it, your skin can rehydrate, inflammation eases, and you’ll notice a brighter, fresher complexion.
3. Reset Your Relationship with Alcohol
A break shines a light on your drinking patterns. Maybe you drink out of habit, or to relieve boredom or stress. Time away lets you see if alcohol is adding to – or quietly draining – your quality of life.
4. Boost Your Health – Body and Mind
After just a few alcohol-free weeks, liver fat drops, blood pressure improves, hydration levels rise, and your gut health rebounds. Mentally, many people experience better focus, reduced anxiety, and improved mood.
5. Safeguard Against Addiction
Alcohol is an addictive substance. Even in later life, it’s possible to slide from “just a few glasses” into dependence. Regular breaks act as a safety check.
6. Save Money and Time – Make Room for Joy
Bottles of wine, cocktails, or beer quickly add up. Taking a break often frees up enough cash and time for a weekend away, a new hobby, or a little luxury that actually makes you feel good the next day.
7. Ignite a Positive Domino Effect
Once you stop drinking, you might naturally start exercising more, eating better, or sleeping earlier. One healthy habit fuels the next – and before you know it, you’re living with more purpose and vitality.
Tempted to give it a try? Here’s how…
7 Quick Tips to Quit!
If you’re curious about taking a break, here are some easy, low-pressure ways to get started:
Pick a Start Date and Commit
Mark it in your calendar. Having a clear beginning helps mentally prepare you and reduces the “I’ll start tomorrow” mindset.
Tell a Friend (or Two)
Accountability works. Choose supportive people who will cheer you on, not tempt you back.
Keep the Ritual, Change the Ingredient
If you love your evening glass, replace it with sparkling water, kombucha, or a fancy mocktail so you keep the comfort without the alcohol.
Track Your Wins
Mark off every alcohol-free day on a tracker – if you have a slip up get right back on track the next day. If you’d like a Tribe Sober 66 day trackers just email me janet@tribesober.com.
Have a Plan for Triggers
Know what you’ll do when the urge hits. Phone a friend, go for a walk, or make a soothing cup of tea.
Reward Yourself
Use some of the money you’re saving to treat yourself to flowers, a massage, or a special day out.
Join a Supportive Community
Surround yourself with like-minded people on the same journey. Sharing the highs and lows makes the process so much easier – and far more fun.
Join Tribe Sober’s Annual #Sober66 Challenge.
The Power of a 66-Day Break
You’ve probably heard that it takes 21 days to form a habit. In reality, neuroscience shows it’s closer to 66 days – the average time it takes for new behaviours to become automatic.
When you commit to 66 alcohol-free days, you’re giving your brain and body a complete reset:
Your Brain Chemistry Rebalances
Alcohol gives us artificial dopamine “hits,” which dull our natural feel-good system. After a few weeks off, your brain starts producing dopamine more efficiently – boosting genuine happiness.
Neural Pathways Weaken
If your brain associates certain times or places with drinking, those links fade when you stop reinforcing them. This makes it easier to say “no” without feeling like you’re missing out.
New Healthy Habits Take Hold
With time and space, you can discover evening rituals that relax and restore you – without a hangover the next day.
Health Benefits Build Over Time
By the second month, sleep is deeper, skin is clearer, energy is higher, and your immune system is stronger.
We Begin to Consider Permanent Change
A 66-day break is so much more powerful than the traditional Dry January – we begin to experience significant benefits which will make us seriously consider sticking with our alcohol free lifestyle!
Join the #Sober66 Challenge – starts 1st September
At Tribe Sober, we’ve taken this science and turned it into a friendly, step-by-step program:
We’ve been running our Challenge since 2018 and have helped thousands of people to change or reset their relationship with alcohol.
Click here to learn more and sign up for the #Sober66 Challenge.
Final Thought – You’ll Gain More Than You Lose!
Taking a break from alcohol in your 60s (or later) isn’t about being “good” or “perfect.” It’s about curiosity – asking yourself what life might feel like without that nightly glass.
And here’s the secret: most people discover that far from losing something, they gain energy, confidence, and clarity they thought was gone forever. Why not find out for yourself?
Let’s Have a Conversation:
Do you take regular breaks from alcohol to improve your health and test your dependence? What benefits do you experience during an alcohol-free period? Does the thought of going 66 days without a drink make you anxious? Are you tempted by the alcohol-free lifestyle?
