Do you ever feel like your mind is on the spin cycle – racing in circles, worrying, and endlessly repeating the same “what if” stories?
If anxiety has you racing on a hamster wheel, you most likely feel:
- Stressed and overwhelmed
- Drained from lack of sleep
- Frantic and worried
- Knots in your stomach
- Obsessed with negative thinking.
But here’s a fact: you can stop your mind’s anxious spin cycle.
Picture what it would mean to be…
- Calm and peaceful
- Clear-minded after a good night’s sleep
- Free of hopelessness and fear
- In control of your thoughts and life
- Confident and composed.
This kind of anxiety-free life is possible – for you!
How do I know? I’m living it!
My Anxiety-Free Life
Several years ago, I was on the edge of despair. I was obsessed with anxious thoughts about a distressing family situation. I was drowning in worry and fear. My thinking was dominated by awful “what if’s” about the future. It was crushing me! I couldn’t sleep. I couldn’t eat. I was miserable.
All I wanted was to calm down, be able to sleep, and get control of upsetting thoughts. I wanted to be able to think clearly and be myself again. I wanted to be at peace.
To stop this spin cycle, I made a decision: I am not going to live like this anymore. I will not let anxiety control my life.
That was the best decision I’ve ever made. I got help. Everything changed.
I learned how to manage my thoughts, calm my fears, get rid of “what ifs,” and reclaim peace.
The transformation was so life-changing that I became a certified anxiety coach so that I could help other women let go of anxious thoughts, too.
So, if you’re ready to stop the anxiety spin cycle, I’m here to help you.
3 Steps to Breaking Free from the Anxiety Loop
These are the basic steps I use with every client and went through myself.
Pinpoint Your Fears
Anxiety is often fueled by unspoken fears. Dare to pause and identify what you are afraid of. Be honest and intentional. Write them down or speak them aloud. Ponder these questions:
- What alarming thoughts keep looping in my mind?
- What “worst case scenario” do I keep imagining?
- What does my inner critic keep shouting in my ear?
Once you identify your fears, you can begin to face them. One of my clients learned that low self-esteem was the root of her fears both on the job and in family relationships. Accusing thoughts kept her stuck.
Turn Negative Thoughts into Positive Thoughts
Fears keep the spiral of negative thoughts going. Stop the out-of-control, fearful thoughts by interrupting them. Here’s how…
- Observe your thoughts.
- Catch negative thoughts in the moment.
- Notice a “what if” scenario and pause.
- Ask yourself: Do I want to keep this negative thought and its harmful effects? OR Do I want to think positive thoughts and experience hopeful, calming effects? It’s up to you!
- Choosing positive thoughts means reframing or shifting negative thoughts to affirming, hopeful thoughts.
- Say your revised positive thoughts aloud to yourself or write them down.
This isn’t about pretending everything is fine. It’s about opening your mind to new possibilities, new energy, and an anxiety-free life.
One of my clients, a business manager, dreaded certain conversations with team members. Fears and “what ifs” clouded her thinking. Replacing negative, scary thoughts with positive affirmations enabled her to stay calm and lead with confidence.
Practice Reframing Your Thoughts – Every Day
This isn’t a one-time fix. It’s a new habit!
Here’s how lasting transformation happens:
- Decide to be as aware as you can to your thought life.
- Catch “what if” thoughts as soon as you become aware of them.
- Pause and reframe negative and “what if” thoughts to hopeful, positive ones.
- Do this over and over again. Practice, practice, practice.
Be patient and kind with yourself. Congratulate yourself for each time you catch and reframe a negative thought. Celebrate!
Over time, you will shift into a mindset that is truly anxiety-free.
Ready to Break Free from the Anxiety Loop?
I know from personal experience how awful anxiety can feel. I also know the freedom from anxiety that’s possible with support and commitment.
That’s why I created a FREE 10-minute video that walks you through these exact 3 steps in more detail.
Watch the video now. This could be your first step toward a calmer, worry-free life.
Let’s Have a Conversation:
What anxious thoughts spin in your mind? Do you constantly find yourself in a worry cycle? What situations or relationships hold your mind captive?
