Let’s be honest: a whole lot of women of a certain age are out here living alone – and thriving. And why wouldn’t we be? Living solo comes with perks so delicious they should be bottled and sold at Sephora.
You control the thermostat like the benevolent queen you are.
You watch whatever you want on TV without negotiating with someone who thinks Storage Wars is “educational.”
You adopt a dog… or two… or three… because no one is there to say, “Do we really need another one?” (Yes. Yes, we do.)
And the best part? You can be social on your own terms. If you want to sip wine with friends, great. If you want to sit in silence with your dog and a bowl of popcorn, also great.
But recently, I stumbled across something that made me pause mid‑scroll and say, “Well now… this is genius.”
Welcome to Cumby, Texas – Home of the Bird’s Nest
Picture this: a tiny‑home retirement community designed exclusively for women ages 60–80. No drama. No judgment. No men wandering around, asking where the extra batteries are.
This magical place is called The Bird’s Nest, and it was founded by a woman named Robyn Yerian, who clearly woke up one day and said, “You know what? I’m going to do something fabulous.” And then she did.
She cashed out her $150,000 retirement fund, bought five acres of land, and created space for 14 tiny homes – each one its own cozy nest. The goal? A supportive, affordable community where women can live independently and have built‑in companionship when they want it.
And let me tell you… the response was nothing short of a stampede. A graceful, well‑moisturized, silver‑haired stampede.
Over 500 women applied for a handful of spots. Single, divorced, widowed – they flocked (pun absolutely intended) to this idea.
A Community Built on Connection, Not Chaos
Each woman has her own tiny home – her sanctuary, her space, her thermostat set to whatever temperature her heart desires. But at the center of the community sits a pavilion where the ladies gather for morning coffee, evening meals, laughter, and the kind of conversation that only happens when women feel safe and seen.
And when someone needs help? The community swoops in.
Doctor’s appointment? Someone’s driving.
Surgery recovery? Meals appear like magic.
Feeling lonely? Step outside – someone’s probably already waving you over.
It’s independence with a safety net. Solitude without isolation. A support system without the strings.
The Win‑Win We’ve All Been Waiting For
Yerian keeps the rent affordable, the vibe peaceful, and the drama nonexistent. In return, she earns passive income and gets to watch a community of women flourish on land she dreamed into existence.
Honestly, it’s brilliant.
It’s wholesome.
It’s the kind of thing that makes you want to stand up and clap in your living room.
Why We Need More Bird’s Nests
Women of a certain age deserve options – real options – for living joyfully, safely, and in community. Not everyone wants to live with family. Not everyone wants to remarry. Not everyone wants to age alone.
But everyone deserves a place where they can be themselves, feel supported, and laugh loudly without someone saying, “Can you keep it down?”
So yes, I love this idea.
Yes, I want more communities like this.
And yes, if someone wants to build one in Tennessee, I’ll happily bring the first casserole to the pavilion.
Let’s Have a Conversation:
Would you move to a women-only community? How about a tiny house community? Do you value your solitude without feeing lonely? What’s the biggest problem you’ve faced as a woman living solo?
