In this age of instant gratification, where a meal can be summoned with a tap on a screen, I often forget the simple pleasure of being in my kitchen. I find myself standing before the fridge, lost in the glow of its light, or bypassing the stove altogether, opting for the convenience of readymade food, leftovers or online orders.
I think of Carrie Bradshaw (Sex and the City), who never cooked; she made a point of that. But she was a woman who understood the importance of ritual. Her secret, single, sexy behavior was legendary, where she read Vogue in her underwear, standing at her kitchen counter while eating Ritz crackers. Her way of owning her space, of creating a moment that was entirely hers.
What Is It About My Kitchen?
I get that. My kitchen might not be the backdrop for culinary masterpieces, but it’s where I find my own version of that quiet, personal joy.
My Kitchen Is My Command Center
The kitchen bar with wood stools is where I write at and talk to others. It’s also where I keep my computer when not upstairs in my office. It’s the room I walk by the most, the room that I use every day. I’m reclaiming my kitchen as a sanctuary, a place where I can remember to practice all best-self techniques. A place where I use the time wisely, slow down my life and reconnect with myself.
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My Kitchen Is Where I Experiment and Have Fun
This kitchen isn’t some curated ideal; it’s where I can start right now to create my own space, my own sanctuary. It’s where I can rediscover a sense of play, of letting go of rigid routines. I work on making healthy choices, yes. I dance between the refrigerator and the stove, the pantry and the garbage pail. I make mistakes, I burn something, a sauce turns out too sour, and I toss back my head and laugh and try again.
My Kitchen Is a Place I Practice My Life to Do List
I solve problems with a dose of creativity and humor. I laugh, sing out loud and off key, stop and pray, stop and pause, show empathy, listen to a friend or a song. I don’t react; I regroup on my day’s plan or something on my mind; I reframe; I rewrite and don’t put off what can be done today.
My kitchen is where I can blend my lifelong effort of efficiency with a touch of whimsy. It’s where I can find a new rhythm, my own way of doing things. It’s about getting it done on my own terms, and maybe even finding a bit of that inner kid along the way.
My kitchen isn’t just a place to prepare food. It’s a place to prepare myself for the world, a place to remember where I came from, and a place to simply be. And just like Carrie, I’m finding that sometimes, the most important moments are the ones I spend alone, in my own space, creating my own rituals.
Create Your Kitchen Sanctuary:
Embrace Ritual, Your Way
Create moments in your kitchen that are uniquely yours. It’s not about cooking; it’s about claiming the space for personal reflection, joy, and a sense of self. Whether it’s writing at the counter, dancing with the fridge, or simply enjoying a quiet moment, make it a deliberate act of reclaiming your space.
Innovate and Integrate
Don’t just stick to tradition. Blend your grandmother’s legacy with modern efficiency. Find ways to streamline your kitchen experience, to make it work better for you. This could be through new tools, organizational systems, or even just finding a faster way to do the dishes.
Find Play in the Practical
Don’t separate “work” from “play.” Integrate creativity and humor into your daily kitchen routines. Sing, dance, laugh, and try new things, even if they fail spectacularly. It’s about finding joy in the process, not just the outcome.
What’s Next
Reframe how you think about your kitchen. It is no longer just a room; it’s a launchpad. Take these lessons and apply them to other areas of your life. Work to find your “kitchen rituals” in all your spaces, work, relationships, and personal projects. Embrace innovation and efficiency in everything you do. Remember to find the humor and playfulness in the everyday, even when things get tough.
Let’s Have a Conversation:
What do you do in your kitchen? Do you have special rituals you perform there? Have you thought about spending more time in your kitchen, trying new things and just having joyful moments?
