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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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It’s the Small Things That Pull Us Forward

It's the Small Things That Pull Us Forward

Every morning, before I get out of bed and while I do my hip flexor stretches, I think about my day. It helps me focus on what I have to look forward to. Maybe it’s lunch with a friend, a different walking route to try, or even a new episode of a favourite series.

I do this every morning. It helps me get up with a smile. I feel positive about the day ahead, even when there is nothing particularly exciting planned.

It’s difficult to get out of bed when there is nothing to get up for. Not something big, but the little things that keep us motivated. Maybe there’s a sale at a local shop, or a new café has opened and you’re meeting friends there for lunch. It could be the electrician arriving at ten or a package being delivered in the afternoon. Whatever it is, it’s something to do. Something to look forward to, and something different from the day before.

While a pending trip, family visit, or special celebration can dominate our thoughts, these events are often few and far between. Most of our lives are made up of ordinary days, and I think ordinary days need something to pull us forward.

When the Future Arrived Automatically

When we were working, there were plenty of built-in milestones. Projects, deadlines, meetings, vacations, and even payday, created a natural sense of movement through the weeks and months. Whether we loved our jobs or not, there was always something coming next.

The future arrived automatically. Retirement changed our days.

One of the great gifts of retirement is freedom. We have more control over our time and how we spend it. Yet freedom can also create an unexpected challenge. Without the structure that work once provided, the days can begin to blend into each other. Monday doesn’t feel much different from Thursday. One week slips into the next and before we know it, another month has passed.

I’ve noticed that when there is nothing ahead of me, even something small, the future can feel blank. Not depressing, just empty. There is no sense of movement, things become stagnant. Not a good feeling.

That is why I believe it’s important to have something ahead of us, even if it’s small. Otherwise, the future can be disheartening. And I don’t think that’s healthy.

Why Small Things Matter

It doesn’t have to be a cruise, a family reunion, or a trip halfway around the world. In fact, I think we sometimes place too much importance on the big events, and not enough on the little ones.

A walk along a new pathway. Coffee with a friend. An afternoon in the garden. A visit to the library. A few quiet hours spent writing, reading, or working on a Sudoku puzzle. These things may seem ordinary, but they give shape to our days. They create continuity and momentum. They give us a reason to get up, get moving, and engage with the world around us.

Many of us assumed retirement would be filled with major plans and exciting adventures. While it sometimes is, this isn’t all the time. What I have come to appreciate most are the smaller events that quietly anchor my days. They include my walks, visits to the grocery store and the mall, writing in the afternoon, with watching the entertainment news, my highlight of the evening. These are the simple things that provide a sense of purpose and direction.

Creating Our Own Milestones

Some people might argue that these are my manufactured milestones, that they aren’t “real” in the same way work and family responsibilities once were. I see it differently.

Retirement gives us the opportunity to decide what matters. We no longer build our lives around a work schedule. We can create our own reasons to look ahead.

Looking forward to walking the dog on a new pathway may not sound important to someone else, but if it brings us pleasure, gets us out of the house, and gives us something to look forward to, then it matters.

The future is coming whether we pay attention to it or not. We can’t stop it, slow it down, or hold onto today. What we can do is step into it willingly, one day at a time.

Every morning, as I stretch and think about the day ahead, I always find things to look forward to. They aren’t necessarily exciting or important. This gives my day shape and purpose. In retirement that’s exact what I need.

It’s the small things that pull us forward.

Click for free access to my Substack, Retired Way Out There, where I publish a bi-monthly newsletter and provide handouts.

What Do You Think?

What do you structure your days around? Do you wait for the big things in life, or do you appreciate all the little things that bring structure to your days? Which little things matter to you most?

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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

It’s the Small Things That Pull Us Forward

It's the Small Things That Pull Us Forward

Every morning, before I get out of bed and while I do my hip flexor stretches, I think about my day. It helps me focus on what I have to look forward to. Maybe it’s lunch with a friend, a different walking route to try, or even a new episode of a favourite series.

I do this every morning. It helps me get up with a smile. I feel positive about the day ahead, even when there is nothing particularly exciting planned.

It’s difficult to get out of bed when there is nothing to get up for. Not something big, but the little things that keep us motivated. Maybe there’s a sale at a local shop, or a new café has opened and you’re meeting friends there for lunch. It could be the electrician arriving at ten or a package being delivered in the afternoon. Whatever it is, it’s something to do. Something to look forward to, and something different from the day before.

While a pending trip, family visit, or special celebration can dominate our thoughts, these events are often few and far between. Most of our lives are made up of ordinary days, and I think ordinary days need something to pull us forward.

When the Future Arrived Automatically

When we were working, there were plenty of built-in milestones. Projects, deadlines, meetings, vacations, and even payday, created a natural sense of movement through the weeks and months. Whether we loved our jobs or not, there was always something coming next.

The future arrived automatically. Retirement changed our days.

One of the great gifts of retirement is freedom. We have more control over our time and how we spend it. Yet freedom can also create an unexpected challenge. Without the structure that work once provided, the days can begin to blend into each other. Monday doesn’t feel much different from Thursday. One week slips into the next and before we know it, another month has passed.

I’ve noticed that when there is nothing ahead of me, even something small, the future can feel blank. Not depressing, just empty. There is no sense of movement, things become stagnant. Not a good feeling.

That is why I believe it’s important to have something ahead of us, even if it’s small. Otherwise, the future can be disheartening. And I don’t think that’s healthy.

Why Small Things Matter

It doesn’t have to be a cruise, a family reunion, or a trip halfway around the world. In fact, I think we sometimes place too much importance on the big events, and not enough on the little ones.

A walk along a new pathway. Coffee with a friend. An afternoon in the garden. A visit to the library. A few quiet hours spent writing, reading, or working on a Sudoku puzzle. These things may seem ordinary, but they give shape to our days. They create continuity and momentum. They give us a reason to get up, get moving, and engage with the world around us.

Many of us assumed retirement would be filled with major plans and exciting adventures. While it sometimes is, this isn’t all the time. What I have come to appreciate most are the smaller events that quietly anchor my days. They include my walks, visits to the grocery store and the mall, writing in the afternoon, with watching the entertainment news, my highlight of the evening. These are the simple things that provide a sense of purpose and direction.

Creating Our Own Milestones

Some people might argue that these are my manufactured milestones, that they aren’t “real” in the same way work and family responsibilities once were. I see it differently.

Retirement gives us the opportunity to decide what matters. We no longer build our lives around a work schedule. We can create our own reasons to look ahead.

Looking forward to walking the dog on a new pathway may not sound important to someone else, but if it brings us pleasure, gets us out of the house, and gives us something to look forward to, then it matters.

The future is coming whether we pay attention to it or not. We can’t stop it, slow it down, or hold onto today. What we can do is step into it willingly, one day at a time.

Every morning, as I stretch and think about the day ahead, I always find things to look forward to. They aren’t necessarily exciting or important. This gives my day shape and purpose. In retirement that’s exact what I need.

It’s the small things that pull us forward.

Click for free access to my Substack, Retired Way Out There, where I publish a bi-monthly newsletter and provide handouts.

What Do You Think?

What do you structure your days around? Do you wait for the big things in life, or do you appreciate all the little things that bring structure to your days? Which little things matter to you most?

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Seen on Bravoleb Prime Day Picks That Are Worth Shopping

Top Prime Day Picks We’ve Seen on Bravolebs

I’m not gonna lie, I am obsessed with Amazon but I don’t always shop the sales. But this year, just when I was about to set in for Summer sale fatigue (making that a new thing), I saw that a ton of items we spotted on the most stylish Real Housewives and Bravolebs are included in the Prime Day Sale. So I’ve rounded up twenty top picks for you to shop, stock up on or really do whatever you want with. But order now because the sale is limited time and only comes once a year.

The Realest Housewife,

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Rachel Zoe’s White Lace Ruffle Skirt Set

Rachel Zoe’s White Lace Ruffle Skirt Set / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Instagram Fashion June 2026

One thing I love about Rachel Zoe is the girl has a type when it comes to fashion. Because her looks usually contain flow-y or ruffle-y pieces. And a brand who does that seamlessly is LoveShackFancy— which this white lace ruffle skirt set is. But not only are they doing fashion they now have a suuuuper cute collab with the viral Stanley cup. And thankfully we have deets to both below so you can quench your thirst for shopping.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


Rachel Zoe's White Lace Ruffle Skirt Set

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Lindsay Hubbard’s Brown Plaid Blazer

Lindsay Hubbard’s Brown Plaid Blazer / In The City Fashion Season 1 Episode 6 Fashion

Lindsay Hubbard has a chat with the girls (and an onlooker) about her dating life in the middle of the pharmacy aisle on tonight’s episode of In the City. And the juiciest gossip that we got from the previews is that her pretty brown plaid blazer is available to rent. But you can still say yes to plaid whether it’s the exact style borrowed or a Style Stealer bought right down below.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


Lindsay Hubbard's Brown Plaid Blazer

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Amanda Batula’s Ugg Slippers

Amanda Batula’s Ugg Slippers / In The City Fashion Season 1 Episode 6

Amanda Batula moves into her new apartment on tonight’s episode of In the City in a chill look paired with platform ugg slippers. And while a pair of slippers may not be absolutely necessary right now, these babies deserve a spot in your home no matter the season because you can wear them with anything, whether you’re lounging inside or heading out of your former relationship.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


Amanda Batula's Ugg Slippers

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Lindsay Hubbard’s Mutlicolor Floral Shirt Dress

Lindsay Hubbard’s Mutlicolor Floral Shirt Dress / Summer House Instagram Fashion June 2026

Lindsay Hubbard posted up in front of the Biguine Paris hair salon in a stunning multicolored floral shirt dress. This pretty print is a perfect for warm weather and adds a pop of colors to your wardrobe, which is why you should tie it into your summer shopping plans ASAP.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


Lindsay Hubbard's Mutlicolor Floral Shirt Dress

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