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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Tamra Judge’s Red Zip Up Sweatshirt

Tamra Judge’s Red Zip Up Sweatshirt / Real Housewives of Orange County Season 20 Episode 1 Fashion

One thing that I love about our girl Tamra Judge is that she throws in some pieces that are affordable. And the zip up hooded sweatshirt she wore on #RHOC last night is just that. So go ahead and get your credit card red-y to shop it! 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Tamra Judge’s Red Zip Up Sweatshirt

Tamra Judge’s Red Zip Up Sweatshirt / Real Housewives of Orange County Season 20 Episode 1 Fashion

One thing that I love about our girl Tamra Judge is that she throws in some pieces that are affordable. And the zip up hooded sweatshirt she wore on #RHOC last night is just that. So go ahead and get your credit card red-y to shop it! 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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Jennifer Pedranti’s Red Crystal Heart Dress / Real Housewives of Orange County Season 20 Episode 1 Fashion

Last night on the #RHOC premiere Heather Dubrow threw a Valentines vibe party and Jennifer Pedranti’s outfit couldn’t have been more perfect for the theme. She wore a red mini dress with a crystal heart cutout that was seriously adorable. And you will totally love the fact that we have deets and Style Stealers on it below. ❤

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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Tamra Judge’s Brown Satin Lace Asymmetric Tank

Tamra Judge’s Brown Satin Lace Asymmetric Tank / Real Housewives of Orange County Season 20 Episode 1 Fashion

Tamra Judge claims she is not artistic, but I thought the outfit she put together for the scarf dying class on #RHOC last night was a work of art! I loved her brown satin lace asymmetric top the most because I thought it was a sexy vibe done in a sophisticated way. Which is why you should burn it head down to shop it for yourself while ya can! 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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Tamra Judge’s Red Collared Button Front Dress

Tamra Judge’s Red Collared Button Front Dress / Real Housewives of Orange County Season 20 Episode 1 Fashion

Tamra Judge brought pure drama in the best way with a red collared button front dress for Heather Dubrow’s Hearts and Heels party. It’s the perfect dress to button up and steal the spotlight, and since it’s still fully in stock, you can take a page from Tamra’s and fall in love with this chic mini moment.

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The Red Box Diet: It Really Works!

The Red Box Diet It Really Works!

Gaining weight after 60 is easy, isn’t it? I have my own reasons for that: stress eating on top of a low thyroid Hashimoto’s condition. Add in a month of COVID (in 2026!), breaking my leg when my dog ran after a squirrel, and just for fun, I had a heart ablation that went wrong, very wrong. Then there was the cataract surgery by a doctor who assured me she never makes mistakes, then melted my cornea. Oh, and then I broke my wrist two days before I was to record my new solo piano album. Let’s not forget that for two years of tendonitis, my heels felt like I had an arrow stuck in both of them.

Food Helped Reduce My Stress, Or So I Thought

With all that sitting around, it seemed like a good time to write my memoir as a professional singer. Due to my Dutch upbringing, when I take on a project, I’m relentless. My butt was in the chair for four months while I wrote 195,506 words. One publisher said, “That must be some kind of record.” She did not mean the kind that plays on a turntable. With the writing, researching, editing, and eating to stay awake, I felt like I was spinning round and round, becoming rounder and rounder. I finally decided to turn the tables and get serious about the size of me, all of me.

My endocrinologist begged me to go on GLP-1s. He gave me a six-week Ozempic sample to try. I set the red box on my kitchen counter. I thought about it and concluded that with my medical conditions, I was not going to inject myself with this “medicine.”

Yet, Something Had to Be Done

I found a new doctor who improved my thyroid function. I started my weight loss program with a liver cleanse to get things moving better. Pasta, bread, white potatoes, white rice, and sugar were eliminated. I’m already alcohol, red meat, gluten, and dairy-free. But giving up that chocolate was disheartening. I set the rules: no food after 6 pm and in bed by 10:30 pm. That first month was tough, but I got the hang of things. Half portions only, salad plate only, and four small meals a day, so I’m never hungry. Now that my heels are better, my dog takes me for brisk walks twice a day.

My Secret Power Has Been the Red Ozempic Box

Every time see it on the counter, it taunts me, “You’re not that hungry, are you, Darlene? Don’t eat too much, or I will have to poke you and mess with your digestive system.” The red box reminder works every time. I’ve lost 42 pounds in 6 months and have another 30 to go. When anyone asked how I did it, I told them, “The Red Box Diet.”

Last week I had my six-month check-up with my cardiologist. He seemed impressed with my losses: weight down 42 pounds, cholesterol down 83 points. He asked, “You did it with GLP-1s, right?” “Nope, just the box,” I explained. He said, “You mean the medicine is still in the box?” “Yup, unopened,” I said. He laughed a lot, “I’ve never heard of such a thing. That’s got to be the most impressive use of discipline ever.”

I mentioned my Dutch Calvinist roots, which account for my determination. I also showed him my memoir, Put Your Dress Down and Sing, and explained that its central message is, “To change your feelings, you must take action. It is in the taking of action that one finds new feelings, hope, and courage to accomplish one’s goals.” He liked that. I thanked him for encouraging me. Who doesn’t need a little support now and then?

I’ve moved from the obese zone into the overweight zone. Yay! I will achieve my goal with the support of my doctors and my little red box! When it’s time to get something done, just get to it, or as my mother once told me, “Darlene, put your dress down and sing!”

Join the Conversation:

What has been your red box diet? Have you been able to maintain discipline in such a way that you achieve your goals?

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Gina Kirschenheiter’s Brown Long Coat and Mesh Top

Gina Kirschenheiter’s Brown Long Coat and Mesh Top / Real Housewives of Orange County Season 20 Episode 1 Fashion

Gina Kirschenheiter is in her engagement era, looking her best in a brown long coat and black mesh top for the girls’ day on last night’s season premiere of #RHOC. These are my two favorite colors to combine lately because they’re neutral, but it’s unexpected. Which is all the more reason to ring in these two stylish staples below.

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Amanda


Gina Kirschenheiter's Brown Long Coat and Mesh Top
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