Midlife is like stepping over the proverbial line in the sand. By the time you’ve hit your 50s and 60s, you’ve lived through career shifts, heartbreaks, child-rearing, menopause, identity changes, and probably a few moments of thinking, “Is this it?”
But here’s a big truth, ladies – midlife doesn’t have to be a slow descent into irrelevance. It can actually be your own personal renaissance.
Everywhere you look these days, women are rewriting what it means to grow older. They’re starting businesses, writing books, launching podcasts, modeling, coaching, you name it. And not because that was what they were doing in their younger years – they’re jumping in and doing it all for the first time.
If you’ve dreamed of starting over or starting something new just for you, you’re not alone, and it’s not too late.
Meet Some Women Who Became the Best Version of Themselves – in Midlife
“Yes, it all sounds lovely, but really? It just doesn’t happen in reality, does it?”
Oh, but it does.
Below are just a few of the women who started something and achieved their most significant successes during midlife.
Vera Wang
Ms. Wang didn’t design her first wedding dress until she was 40, and her empire wasn’t created until she was in her 50s.
Lyn Slater, the “Accidental Icon”
Lyn was a university professor who, at 61, started a blog to explore fashion, identity, and aging. It took off so thoroughly that she signed modeling contracts and does global speaking engagements.
Laura Ingalls Wilder
The woman famous for Little House on the Prairie and its many sequels didn’t pen her first book until 65.
Anna Mary Robertson – AKA “Grandma” Moses
The renowned painter didn’t begin her creative career until 76, when arthritis ended her embroidery hobby.
These women didn’t set out to become inspirational in midlife. And I’ll bet that in their 30s, none of them could have forecasted these futures, but here they are.
They’re not the only ones either. A quick Google search will bring up many, many others.
Why Now Isn’t Too Late
“But I don’t feel relevant anymore.”
But you are!
By now you’ve gathered years, decades likely, of experience, skills, and emotional intelligence. You can,
- Negotiate
- Problem-solve
- Manage
- Pivot directions
You also know what you’re good at and what you will and won’t tolerate. And the best part – you probably no longer care that much about what people think about what you do and how you do it.
That’s like jet fuel for new endeavors and entrepreneurship.
And in this digital age, the barriers to entry are lower than ever. You don’t need a brick-and-mortar shop or a business loan to get started. You just need a laptop, a little strategy, and a willingness to try.
How to Get Started (Without Getting Overwhelmed or Stuck)
Starting something new in midlife isn’t about moving fast. It’s about moving intentionally.
How? Well, there are many roads, but a helpful road map to follow is as follows.
Get Focused and Be Honest
Ask yourself,
“What do I want to do?”
Maybe it’s something you loved in your youth that you gave up. Perhaps it’s the business idea you scribbled in a notebook five years ago, but it’s buried. This is your chance to honor those experiences and bring them forward.
Start with One Small Move
Things are often easier when done incrementally.
Want to start a business? Don’t try to launch a whole brand overnight. Start with some small moves.
- Secure a domain name.
- Create a basic Instagram page.
- Tell three people about your idea.
- Make your first item or write your first post.
Want to write that book?
Set a timer for 20 minutes and begin. Don’t wait for a clear schedule or the “right” mood. Just start.
Learn from Others, But Don’t Compare
Find 2-3 women who are doing something you admire. Learn about them and how they achieved success. Take notes on what resonates.
But remember – your story is different. So, don’t be afraid to do things your way.
Make Peace with Messy Beginnings
You’re going to feel uncertain. You’ll question yourself. You may want to quit halfway through your first attempt.
That’s not a sign you’re failing – it’s a sign you’re growing.
No one starts out as an expert, and everyone successful has failed (most, multiple times). These are certainties.
Be willing to be a beginner. It won’t last forever.
Build Your Circle
One of the best ways to feel and stay inspired is to be with people who share your enthusiasm and energy.
So, surround yourself with women who get it.
Whether it’s an online group, a local club, or just one friend who cheers you on. This part matters more than you think. Entrepreneurship and creativity can feel lonely without connection.
Don’t go it alone.
It’s Not Frivolous – It’s Making You Better
“But it seems silly. Shouldn’t I just relax and enjoy my golden years?
Maybe – if that’s what you want. But there are definite emotional and psychological benefits to taking on new things.
Renewed Sense of Purpose and Identity
After decades of caregiving, career-building, or supporting others, many women in midlife often find themselves asking,
“What now?”
Starting something new, whether it’s a business, an art project, or a passion project, offers a chance to redefine one’s identity on one’s own terms.
It shifts the focus from what they’ve done for others to what fulfills them personally, creating a deeper sense of purpose and direction.
Boost in Confidence and Self-Worth
Taking on a new challenge later in life, especially one that requires learning, risk-taking, or putting something out into the world, can dramatically increase self-esteem.
Each new milestone – first sale, first published piece, first show – reinforces the message:
“I’m still capable. I still matter. I can still grow.”
That confidence often spills over into other areas of life, including relationships, health, and happiness.
Mental Resilience and Emotional Vitality
Engaging in new endeavors keeps the brain active and agile, but more importantly, it provides emotional stimulation.
It fights off stagnation, loneliness, and the subtle depression that can creep in during later life transitions.
Creating something, whether it’s a brand, a painting, or a product, releases dopamine (the brain’s pleasure chemical) and cultivates a mindset of curiosity, resilience, and joy. It gives you something to look forward to each day, which is psychologically energizing.
You Have Permission to Begin
You don’t need to be the next Vera Wang or Grandma Moses. You just need to be the next and the best version of you. Trust your instincts and give yourself permission to try.
So, if you’ve got a spark, a story, a service, a vision, a passion – light the match. Start now. Maybe you’re right on time.
Let’s Have a Conversation:
Have you started something new in your 60s? Have you been thinking about it, but have questions? Share your story and join the conversation.
