Month: February 2020

7 Easy Ways to Upgrade Your Casual Outfits as a Modern Mature Woman

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Culture is trending more casual than ever before. Men and women used to dress up just to go downtown and do their shopping. Now – at least in some parts of the world – it’s not at all unusual to see folks shopping in their pajamas.

What comes to your mind when you think of a “casual” outfit? If you think “sloppy,” “thrown together,” or “blasé,” it’s time to redefine this modern style.

Instead, think smart casual. You want an easygoing outfit that’s informal and low-pressure. But you still care about each item in your ensemble. And you’re focused on nailing the fit for a flattering look.

When you find the right upgraded, smart casual style for yourself, you’ll always look modern and stunning – even if you’re wearing a very simple outfit. Here’s how to do it.

Clever Accessories

Something as simple as jeans and a T-shirt can become a striking outfit with the right accessories. Imagine you’re going out for a casual lunch with friends. What can you do to upgrade your basic look while keeping it fun and low-key?

Add Color

Bright accessories that add a pop of color to your outfit instantly transform your style. Instead of matching the color of your clothing, go with a bold complementary hue that stands out. Wearing white? Choose a bright red or cobalt blue accessory. Wearing black? Jewel tones and pastels will look great.

Add Shine

Silver and gold accessories may seem more formal, but they pair well with casual outfits too. A simple gold chain and bracelet combo makes a basic outfit feel more refined. Combine shine and color with a gold chain and gem pendant.

The subtle touch shows you gave forethought to your casual attire and makes you stand out for all the right reasons.

Add Size

Big, bold, chunky accessories are fun and go perfectly with a casual look. Instead of going with multiple understated bracelets, use one with a large band or beads to create a striking look. This is a great opportunity to go bold with color too.

Focus on Fit

Casual shouldn’t mean sloppy. You can look great in a low-key outfit if it fits well and accentuates your natural features.

Unfortunately, this is where many women struggle in their casual style. Finding the right fit can be a never-ending battle – especially if you wear plus size clothing or you prefer a bit more length or coverage. What can you do to focus on fit in your casual wardrobe?

Shop for Fit First

Even if you love the color or cut, it’s never going to look good on you if the fit is wrong. This applies to casual clothes just as much as formal attire. Purchasing clothes that look nice but fit poorly will only add more frustration to your wardrobe.

Know Your Measurements

If you’re shopping online, you need to know your measurements and compare them with sizing guides before you buy. That way you won’t have to deal with disappointing purchases and frustrating returns.

Go Handmade

Cookie cutter sizing leaves most women wearing clothing that doesn’t fit quite right. That’s especially true for plus sizes – they’re often just expanded versions of smaller sizes.

For a better fit, go with boutique plus size designers that work with handmade clothing. Etsy shops are great places to find unique casual plus size clothing.

Make Alterations

Have a few tops, skirts, or dresses that you absolutely love but don’t fit just right? Have them altered locally by a seamstress. That way you can keep wearing your beautiful casual clothing, but it will fit even better and really make you look amazing.

Keep Casual Fun and Easy

Remember, your casual outfits should be fun, easy, and beautiful. You deserve to feel gorgeous everyday, not just when you’re heading to a formal event.

Use these tips to upgrade your casual attire while staying true to its low-key nature. With just a few touches, you can turn even simple ensembles into an opportunity to show off your beautiful, unique style.

When do you go casual? How do you upgrade your casual outfits? What striking accessories do you use most often to spark up a casual outfit? Please share in the comments below.

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Raquel Leviss’ Foundation

Raquel Leviss’ Foundation

Vanderpump Rules Season 8 Episode 6 Makeup

While I was bummed that I wasn’t able to gather any good makeup tidbits on the Vanderpump Rules trip to Miami (that is normally when they pop up because sans BH, no one is using an MUA on vacay and they have normally packed their personal faves), I was pleasantly surprised to recognize Raquel’s foundation while she was getting ready for Pride.

Raquel is actually using one of my favorite foundations, which I generally buy for a treat as it’s pretty pricey. Which reminds me, I think it’s about time I do something for myself.

Warning: Though it can be sprayed directly on your face for full coverage, it definitely won’t cover up being late for work on Pride. 

The Realest Housewife,

Big Blonde Hair

 

Raquel Leviss' Foundation

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Originally posted at: Raquel Leviss’ Foundation

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Raquel Leviss’ Denim Tie Romper

Raquel Leviss’ Denim Tie Romper at Villa Rosa

Vanderpump Rules Season 8 Episode 6 Fashion

Raquel Leviss’ denim tie romper at Villa Rosa is so adorable, much like it’s owner. I swear though, she has some savage fans because a few months back I left her photo out of a Vanderpump Rules cast collage on the ‘Gram (for aesthetics btw, I needed an even number, duh) and I heard alllll about it in the comments from many of her fans. So my advice is scroll and shop quickly before the *Leviss-lovers scoop up all of the stock of this sweet style.

*I mean it’s no Swifties or Beyhive, but I did try. 

 

The Realest Housewife,

Big Blonde Hair

 

Raquel Leviss Tie Front Denim

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2 Ways to Take a “Practice Retirement” (Either Way Can Change Your Financial Future!)

2 Ways to Take a “Practice Retirement”

For most of our lives, retirement is a distant dream. It is the mirage in the desert that keeps us moving forward, one tired step at a time.

In our younger years, we look at retired folks with a mixture of jealousy and pity. On the one hand, we envy the freedom that we imagine must come from not having to go to work. On the other hand, we fear the wrinkles, stiff joints and sometimes fuzzy memories of our grandparents.

Then, as we reach our 50s and 60s, reality sets in and, unless we are among the “lucky” (well prepared!) few who are sitting on a mountain of gold, we start to fear retirement as much as we look forward to it.

Oh, don’t get me wrong… we still look forward to having more time to ourselves. We still fantasize about traveling, going back to school, pursuing our hobbies and (gasp!) maybe just relaxing in front of the TV on a Tuesday afternoon with a beer in one hand and the Sunday newspaper in the other.

But, here’s the dirty secret that most people never discover until it is too late… retirement, for most people, is nothing like they imagine! And, it is certainly nothing like it is portrayed on TV and in the movies.

It’s not only the decline in our income that catches us by surprise; it is also the lack of social stimulation, difficulty finding meaning and worries about the future that hit us harder than we could imagine.

So, after talking with hundreds of retirees, I started to wonder why more of us don’t take a “practice retirement” in our 50s or 60s. Perhaps, if we faced out future now, we would take steps to change it.

Sound intriguing? Later in this article, I will give two possible ways to take a “Practice Retirement.” But, first, let’s quickly explore what a practice retirement is and how taking one can improve your future.

What is a Practice Retirement?

The concept of a practice retirement is simple. You set aside some time, be it several weeks or months, to live as you would in retirement.

This means that you try, as much as possible, to create the financial, social and practical environment that you will face in your retirement years.

For example, you might begin by calculating how much monthly income you expect to receive from all of your assets, including investments, Social Security and any pensions that you own. Then, you would limit your outgoings to this amount for the course of your practice retirement.

If you are able to take some time away from work for your practice retirement (see option 2 below), you might also try to recreate the social environment that you are likely to face in your later years.

By the end of your practice retirement, you should have a much better picture of your level of preparedness. And, maybe your experience will raise some important topics to discuss with your partner, financial advisor, boss and friends.

So, how can you set up your own practice retirement? There are two ways, each with their opportunities and challenges.

Practice Retirement Option 1: The Marathon

The first option that you have is to keep your life pretty much the way it is now and simply limit your budget to a post-retirement level. In this scenario, you would continue to get up and go to work every day and spend time with your work friends. You would simply adjust your budget.

The advantage of this approach is that it allows you to track your spending and live on your post-retirement budget for a long time. I even know people who have practiced this approach for a year (or more!)

The disadvantage of this approach is that it only gives you insights into one aspect of your retirement – your financial situation. It won’t tell you anything about your social situation, hobbies or mission.

Practice Retirement Option 2: The Sprint

Another option is to take a long vacation (preferably more than a month) and try to replicate, as much as possible, what your post-retirement life will be like.

In my experience, this is a difficult approach to take because most people treat their short practice retirement as a long holiday. For example, they spend way more than they actually would in an average month.

So, the trick here is to limit yourself financially and socially to match the situation that you could expect to face in retirement. Unless you have enough money to travel every month, don’t travel. The goal here is to get an accurate view of your future, not to have one big party.

The advantage of this approach is that, when done correctly, it allows you to get a 360-degree view of your future – financial, social and emotional.

The disadvantage of taking a short “sprint” practice retirement is that it has the tendency to paint an unrealistically rosy picture of your future unless you are unusually disciplined.

At the end of the day, any form of practice retirement that you take can help you to plan your future. Personally, I wish that I had used both of the above approached before I left my corporate job. If I had, I would have avoided many painful situations in the first years on my own.

Have you ever thought about taking a practice retirement? Why or why not?

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Hannah Ann Sluss’ Blue Printed Jumpsuit

Hannah Ann Sluss’ Blue Printed Jumpsuit in Peru

The Bachelor Season 24 Episode 7 Fashion

There’s no questioning the fact that Hannah Ann Sluss’ blue printed jumpsuit from this week’s episode of The Bachelor was super cute. So cute that if we were to list all of the qualities that we love about it (i.e. off the shoulder style, cool mixed print and side cut outs to name a few) we have a feeling that it would probably end up giving us a serious case of carpal tunnel syndrome like Hannah Ann probably has now.

Fashionably,

Faryn

Hannah Ann Sluss’ Blue Printed Jumpsuit

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