Month: April 2023

Isn’t It Time to Tell Your Story? Here Are 6 Ways to Get Started

Tell-Your-Story

Ready to write a book? You’re not alone. You have a lifetime of ideas, experiences and stories to share. The challenge is where and how to begin. It can be daunting.

I heard once that there was a book inside each of us. That’s very true. The task is to tease it out, then get it into a form folks want to read. Your story is worth hearing. Don’t think so? Please keep reading.

I’ve been a writer all my life. I’m a prize-winning journalist and multiple prize-winning author. However, I didn’t even begin writing books until I was almost 60.

It wasn’t until I had amassed enough road rash that I felt I had something to say. Many of us bloom best late in life, when the perspectives we’ve gained gather power, gravitas and value for others. Here are six ways to get started.

Consider Hiring a Book Coach

Hiring a book coach can be expensive, but the value of having one is that you have someone guiding you through the entire process from soup to nuts.

I did that with my first book, which went on to win three prizes. A number of the best ideas in that book came through brainstorming with my coach. He pushed me to make an outline, to be highly disciplined in my writing every day, and held my reluctant feet to the fire.

The discipline paid off. One example of a book coach is Robin Colucci, who has worked with a very broad variety of writers and is a ghost writer herself.

Build Your Writer’s Library

There are a number of excellent books on writing and self-publishing that should be in your library. Colucci’s book How to Write a Book That Sells You is one gem. So is On Writing Well by William Zinsser, which is a superb treatise on how to write.

You can also look at Do I Make Myself Clear by the inimitable Harold Evans, one of the best editors and writers over the last 50 years.

The other is Dan Poynter’s Self-Publishing Manual. Dan left us a few years ago, so it hasn’t been updated for a while, but it stands as one of the best and most readable books on how to get yourself in print without battling the big boys for attention.

There are plenty of books on how to write. Writers read. The more we read the better we get at writing.

Go to the Local Bookstore

Visit a bookstore and browse the section where you want your book to be displayed. Look at the designs, covers, the back-cover copy.

Buy those that are best sellers and find out why they gained that status. This is one of the best ways to get inspiration on how your book might look, sound or be displayed.

Join a Local Writers’ Group, or Form One of Your Own

Writers’ groups are a great way to gain supporters and ideas. Here we have the Colorado Independent Publishers Association, or CIPA. It’s full of writers, editors, copywriters, book designers, publishers – everything and everyone you could possibly need to get a book completed.

There may be something similar near you. Check out online, at universities and libraries. Ask around. Having others support your efforts, especially to read your manuscript, makes this effort so much easier.

Write. Write. And Write Some More.

I have three more additions to your library that will support your writing discipline: the great Stephen Pressfield’s books The War of Art, Do the Work, and Nobody Wants to Read Your Sh*t.

Pressfield, who is a highly successful novelist and screen writer, put together these three small gems that have a tendency to cut through excuses and denials.

Find Your Message

Another book that I have found hugely useful is The Message of You by comedian and speaker Judy Carter. Even if you don’t want to become a speaker, and you might, the exercises she recommends to help you put together a keynote are perfect for helping you find the theme of your life.

Your book needs a message – the message of you – and Judy’s book teases it out of you. You will be delighted and surprised at how so much of your life has a lesson for so many others. What a gift!

She’s funny, fun and direct. This is the book to help you get off the ground, especially if you are stuck at the starting gate.

You may wish to subscribe to some writers’ magazines, but my experience of them is that they are too full of ads telling you to get your Masters in Fine Arts before you attempt to write a book. Nonsense. There is no reason you need an MFA to write. Just do it. Now.

You may be charmed to find out that your life story has far more to it than you ever imagined. There are people out there waiting to read it. What are you waiting for? Do the Work!

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you ever thought about writing a book? What is stopping you? Have you written a successful book or memoir and have an experience to share? What is your best advice on just getting it done? Please share your tips and tricks with us here so we can be inspired!

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Paige DeSorbo’s Denim and Leather Pants

Paige DeSorbo’s Denim and Leather Pants on Her Instastories

Summer House 2023 Instagram Fashion

I am LOVING this whole cowboy/western fashion era that we are currently in right now. So I’m obviously obsessing over Paige DeSorbo’s denim and leather pants that give a chic chaps vibe. Like I said this trend is hot right now and great for any outdoor summer events, like concerts or BBQs. So saddle up and head west south to get your hands on a pair of these pants!

 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

 

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This Wash Duo Tames Excess Frizz & Supports Growth on Curly & Wavy Hair Types


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A curly hair routine is an entirely different beast than most; these unique hair follicles require their own set of products and specific steps to keep curls bouncy and in proper form. Without them, unnecessary breakage and excess frizz may ensue, which is never a welcome experience. While each regimen can be circumstantial based on the level of coils and texture, looking for formulas that specifically cater to those with thicker, curlier hair types is a step in the right direction.

There are numerous products for curly hair types out there, but if you’re looking to stay within an affordable range, Hairburst’s Shampoo & Conditioner for Curly and Wavy Hair fits the description. The gentle cleansing duo was designed for curly and wavy hair types, and contains a mix of conditioning agents that define natural curls. Beyond strengthening your hair structure, it also locks in moisture to manage frizz, smoothes static and softens each strand. 

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Both the shampoo and the conditioner‘s ingredients were carefully selected for curly and wavy strands: Almond and black oak extract offers hydrating and soothing properties; amino acids improve the feel of the hair while adding color protection for dyed strands; wheat bran extract and camellia oil seal in cuticles to protect against damage and improve the strength of the hair for optimal growth; hydrolysed wheat protein protects against environmental aggressors, such as UV rays.

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Per the brand, both the products are “curly girl method-approved,” since they don’t contain sulphates or any ingredients that the curly girl method advises curly girls to avoid.  They are also suitable for curl types 3A, 3B and 3C. While these formulas were designed for those with these kinds of hair types, shoppers with extra frizzy and unmanageable strands may find benefits from use.

The brand carries additional targeted hair wash treatments, from a hair growth elixir that supports growth and adds volume to fine strands to a shampoo that helps oily scalps stay cleaner for longer. All are worthy of a place in your cart, so get shopping!

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Melissa Gorga’s Black Square Sunglasses in Ireland

Melissa Gorga’s Black Square Sunglasses in Ireland

Real Housewives of New Jersey Season 13 Episode 12 Fashion

Is there anything quite as great a pair of oversized, black sunglasses? In my world, there is not.  Anyone who knows me knows that they are my signature.

They can hide everything from the fact that you haven’t had time to put mascara on to how you feel, all while making you look kind of like a celeb. But please don’t let any current pair you might have hide the excited look on your face if you’re one of the people to scroll down quickly enough to get Melissa’s on sale.

 

The Realest Housewife,

Big Blonde Hair

 

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This Wash Duo Tames Excess Frizz & Supports Growth on Curly & Wavy Hair Types


If you purchase an independently reviewed product or service through a link on our website, STYLECASTER may receive an affiliate commission.

A curly hair routine is an entirely different beast than most; these unique hair follicles require their own set of products and specific steps to keep curls bouncy and in proper form. Without them, unnecessary breakage and excess frizz may ensue, which is never a welcome experience. While each regimen can be circumstantial based on the level of coils and texture, looking for formulas that specifically cater to those with thicker, curlier hair types is a step in the right direction.

There are numerous products for curly hair types out there, but if you’re looking to stay within an affordable range, Hairburst’s Shampoo & Conditioner for Curly and Wavy Hair fits the description. The gentle cleansing duo was designed for curly and wavy hair types, and contains a mix of conditioning agents that define natural curls. Beyond strengthening your hair structure, it also locks in moisture to manage frizz, smoothes static and softens each strand. 

Hairburst Wash Duo For Curly & Wavy Hair Types

Hairburst

Hairburst Longer, Stronger Hair For Curly, Wavy Hair

Both the shampoo and the conditioner‘s ingredients were carefully selected for curly and wavy strands: Almond and black oak extract offers hydrating and soothing properties; amino acids improve the feel of the hair while adding color protection for dyed strands; wheat bran extract and camellia oil seal in cuticles to protect against damage and improve the strength of the hair for optimal growth; hydrolysed wheat protein protects against environmental aggressors, such as UV rays.

RELATED: This Spray Brings Instant Volume to Flat Strands & Visibly Thickens Them Overtime

Per the brand, both the products are “curly girl method-approved,” since they don’t contain sulphates or any ingredients that the curly girl method advises curly girls to avoid.  They are also suitable for curl types 3A, 3B and 3C. While these formulas were designed for those with these kinds of hair types, shoppers with extra frizzy and unmanageable strands may find benefits from use.

The brand carries additional targeted hair wash treatments, from a hair growth elixir that supports growth and adds volume to fine strands to a shampoo that helps oily scalps stay cleaner for longer. All are worthy of a place in your cart, so get shopping!

Hairburst Oily Scalp Wash Duo

Hairburst

Hairburst Shampoo & Conditioner For Oily Scalp & Roots

hairburst volume and growth

HairBurst.

Hairburst Volume & Growth Elixir

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