Month: January 2024

Jeans Seen on Our Favorite Real Housewives

Our favorite jean queens, the Real Housewives, have given us a lot of to-die-for-denim inspo lately. I’ve compiled the still in stock best sellers to shop and steal their style. And the best part is they’re at all price points, with three pairs available for under $100. So whether you like straight leg or wide leg, ripped or clean, take a look below for the perfect jeans.

The Realest Housewife,

Big Blonde Hair

1. Crystal Kung Minkoff’s Wide Leg Jeans 2. Erin Lichy’s Ankle Jeans (pre-order) 3. Jessel Taank’s Crossover Waist Jeans 4. Erin Lichy’s Distressed Boyfriend Jeans 5. Erin Lichy’s Dark Wash Jeans 6. Kyle Richards’ Cropped Jeans 7. Melissa Gorga’s Distressed Jeans 8. Brynn Whitfield’s Cropped Wide Leg Jeans 9. Kyle Richards’ Flared Jeans 10. Lisa Barlow’s Paneled Jeans

Originally posted at: Jeans Seen on Our Favorite Real Housewives

During the Covid-19 pandemic, the popularity of second homes jumped due to low mortgage interest rates and the surge in working remotely. Higher rates have dampened the mortgage market, but the interest in second homes continues as people look for:

• A retreat from everyday life
• A future retirement location
• A way to be closer to family
• An investment or income option

However, establishing a second home is a big decision with several moving parts.

Second Home: What Is It?

The term “second home” assumes you’re splitting your time between two or more locations. (For this blog, we’ll consider two homes, a main and a second.) Also, buying a property purely to rent out doesn’t fit the definition. You have to live there part of the year to bestow the title of “second home.”

Also, our definition can include a home you rent or own. When someone rents the same property for the same months year after year, it’s easy to think about it as a second home.

Additionally, a second home can take a variety of forms, such as:

• House
• Condominium or apartment
• Cooperative
• Mobile/manufactured home
• Recreational vehicle or trailer
• Boat

Boats and RVs might seem unconventional as a second home, but the IRS considers each a “qualified home,” assuming they have sleeping, cooking, and toilet facilities.

Note also that ownership can be full or partial. Additionally, instead of owning a second home, you could have contractual rights to use the home for a specified period, such as a timeshare. And, of course, there are rentals where you aren’t the owner.

Finally, second homes differ based on the amount of time you stay there. Tax laws can be a factor. States with income tax want to make sure residents with second homes pay state taxes if they primarily live in the state.

Another factor can be the form of ownership. Full owners can stay in the home anytime they choose. However, partial owners are restricted by contract to specified periods or number of days. The same is true for timeshare contracts that govern the amount of time that can be spent at the property.

So, if this defines a second home, what are the reasons for wanting one?

Second Home: Why?

As mentioned before, there are several reasons why you might want a second home. Let’s look at each in detail.

Retreat

A second home might be a vacation or weekend destination, or it can also be your home for months at a time.

Also, a second home might be devoted entirely to leisure, a remote work location, or a combination of both. Regardless of the amount of time or how you spend your time, there are other motivations for wanting a second home:

• Better weather
• Lifestyle differences such as city versus country living
• Geography features like mountains versus the beach
• Entertainment opportunities like performing arts or sports

Retirement

A second home initially used for vacations can evolve into one’s primary home in retirement. This gives a chance to experience a community before committing to it full-time. Also, it allows you to establish a social network there before retirement.

Closer to Family

A second home might be in one’s hometown, where other family members live. Also, a second home might be a vacation destination for the extended family.

Investment/Income Opportunity

A second home usually represents a real estate asset that changes up or down in value. (Boats and RVs are the exception since they generally depreciate.) Real estate has been an excellent long-term investment in the U.S. over the past few decades so that a second home could yield a profit in the long run.

A second home can also generate income as a rental. Many families can afford a second home by renting their property via Airbnb or VRBO for part of the year.

This overview of the “what” and “why” questions of establishing a second home merely scratches the surface of this complicated subject. Future blogs will cover more details to help you prepare for this big decision.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What are your views on second homes? Have you thought about acquiring one? Even if you don’t have the finances for it, what would you dream it to be or look like?

Estrangement, a universal emotional and psychological phenomenon, significantly influences the well-being of individuals. In this blog post, we will delve into the complexities of estrangement, examining its unique impact on both men’s and women’s mental and physical health. Additionally, insights from Sean Evans’ article, “Not Talking About Mental Health Is Literally Killing Men,” will be integrated to highlight the pressing need for mental health awareness.

Understanding Estrangement

Estrangement is a complex and nuanced emotional phenomenon characterized by a significant emotional distance that manifests in various forms within relationships. This distancing can occur among family members, friends, or partners and is often triggered by unresolved conflicts and cultural differences.

Family

In family dynamics, estrangement may arise when deep-seated disagreements or unaddressed issues create a palpable emotional gap between relatives. The inability to resolve conflicts or address underlying tensions can lead to a sense of detachment and emotional separation.

Friendships

Among friends, estrangement might occur when differing perspectives, values, or life choices strain the bond between individuals. Unresolved conflicts, from miscommunication or conflicting priorities, can result in a gradual emotional drift, ultimately leading to estrangement.

Romantic Partnerships

In romantic relationships, partners may experience estrangement when trust issues, communication breakdowns, or unmet expectations persist without resolution. The emotional distance in these cases may intensify, creating a barrier that hinders the connection between partners.

Cultural differences also play a significant role in the manifestation of estrangement. Divergent cultural backgrounds can lead to misunderstandings, misinterpretations, and clashes in values, contributing to the emotional distancing between individuals.

Estrangement is not a one-size-fits-all concept but a dynamic and multifaceted experience influenced by various factors. By acknowledging the role of unresolved conflicts and cultural differences in the process, we gain a deeper understanding of the intricate dynamics that contribute to the emotional distance observed in estranged relationships.

Estrangement and Women’s Health

Research suggests that women, who often prioritize relationships and social connections, experience unique challenges in the face of estrangement. The absence of these connections can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness, impacting mental health. Additionally, stress-related health issues such as anxiety and depression may become more prevalent among women.

Moreover, the stress associated with severed relationships can have physical health implications for women, contributing to conditions like cardiovascular problems and weakened immune responses.

Estrangement and Men’s Health

Men, traditionally encouraged to prioritize autonomy, may respond differently to estrangement. Societal expectations for men to be stoic and independent can lead to internalized emotions, heightening the risk of mental health challenges like depression and substance abuse.

Men may also be more susceptible to the adverse physical effects of estrangement, with suppressed emotions and a lack of a support system contributing to increased stress levels and potential cardiovascular issues.

Sean Evans’ article,  “Not Talking About Mental Health Is Literally Killing Men,” emphasizes the urgent need to address mental health issues, challenging the stigma around men who discuss their struggles. The statistics presented are staggering, revealing daily struggles with depression for 9 percent of men, affecting more than 6 million individuals. Anxiety is a daily battle for over 3 million men and male suicide is classified as a “silent epidemic,” ranking as the seventh leading cause of death.

Evans denounces the antiquated and dangerous macho attitude of suppressing emotions, advocating for breaking the silence surrounding mental health. Courageous figures like Zayn Malik, Kevin Love, and Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson have shared their battles, inspiring others to open up and seek support.

Practical Guidance for Men and Women

How we feel and perceive our mental state reflects our daily choices, outlook, and overall well-being. Mental health stigma has prevented individuals from seeking assistance. However, with the convenience of virtual consultations and extended support, help is only a phone call away.

Stigma grows when individuals care what others think of their struggles and worry somebody will judge them. Sometimes, access and lack of insurance hinder mental health treatment. Then, some want to go it alone, accessing self-help books and committing to daily practices that promote mental health. Daily routines, an active lifestyle, and staying socially active are excellent.

The benefit of being informed and aware is following critical practices can reduce distress. Hopefully, when stress and state are overwhelming, one avails themselves to where they can gain relief. Decreasing stigma and supporting ourselves and others to address mental health and physical health is more important now than ever.

Conclusion

Estrangement’s impact on health is a complex and multifaceted phenomenon affecting both men and women. Understanding gender-specific implications is crucial for developing strategies to mitigate adverse mental and physical well-being effects. The urgency highlighted by Evans reinforces the need for open conversations, empathy, and support, contributing to positive change and replacing detrimental silence with a proactive dialogue on mental health.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

How has estrangement affected your mental health? What are your thoughts on mental health awareness? What has worked for you when you have had a tough go?

It is winter and except for a few of us who live in the tropics, most are experiencing some cold weather. We probably will not get snow where we live this year but the mornings are still very cold. The evenings are cold enough to enjoy a fire in our cozy living room.

This is great weather to enjoy some yummy and healthy soups. Soup is a favorite lunch for us. I always have a few containers in the freezer and one in the fridge.

We are often home for lunch, and I am too busy to think about what to make, so soup is perfect. Many soups are also excellent for weight loss diets as they are often filled with nutritious vegetables and, to boot, are very filling.

Cabbage Beef Soup

Ingredients:

Directions:

• Set your large pot on the stove with the water at a medium heat.
• Add the oil and seasonings.
• Slowly add the beef and cook on a medium heat for about 30 minutes.
• Add all the vegetables and cook for about 15 minutes.
• Add the quinoa and continue cooking until tender.
• Add extra water if the soup is too thick for your taste.
• Add salt and pepper to taste.
• Serve with some warm French bread.

*The soup will stay fresh in the fridge for about 4 days.

**The soup freezes very well.

***You can substitute chicken for beef.

Curried Lentil and Vegetable Soup

The lentils cook up really fast, so when I’m in a hurry – which happens often – I make lentil soup. This is a favorite soup at our house and I make it just about every month. As you can tell, I make large batches of soup to last for many meals.

Ingredients:

Directions:

• Add the water in a large pot and bring to boil.
• Pour in the lentils.
• Add the oil and all the seasonings.
• Cook for about 30 minutes. (If the soup is too thick, add more water.)
• Add all the veggies.
• Cook for about 45 minutes.
• Add salt and pepper to your taste.

*This soup will keep in the fridge for 7 days.

Chicken and Couscous Soup

I often design my soups around what I have on hand in the meat and veggie department. This soup is thick and delicious. However, if you like a thinner soup add extra chicken broth or water.

Ingredients:

Directions:

• Bring the broth and water to a boil.
• Add the oil.
• Add all of the seasonings.
• Add the couscous.
• Add all of the vegetables.
• Cook this mixture for about 30 minutes on a medium heat.
• Add the chicken to the soup.
• Cook for another 15 minutes.
• Add salt and pepper to your taste.

*This soup will keep in the fridge for about 3 days.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you have some favorite soups you enjoy? Feel welcome to share the recipes or some basic preparation tips that will be helpful!