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I live about 30 miles north of New York City, within an hour and a half drive of three major US airports: Newark, LaGuardia and JFK. When I’m searching for trips on Google Flights, I get dozens of options at a variety of prices on multiple airlines.

Life is good.

But, recently, I’ve started flying in and out of Westchester County Airport, a small, regional facility with commercial airline service to many non-stop destinations and connections through US hub cities.

My friends think I’m nuts. But it’s one of the smartest travel moves I’ve made. Here’s why.

Advantages of Flying from a Regional Airport

By choosing a regional airport instead of a large, multi-terminal international airport, I’ve discovered several pros, including the ability to arrive about an hour before flight time when I’m traveling with just a carry-on.

Although I have TSA PreCheck, I never need it at my regional airport because the security line is nonexistent.

There’s no long shuttle ride from a distant parking lot. The terminal is steps from short-term parking. And the daily parking rate is cheaper than what I’d pay at a large airport.

Weekend trips that would be a hassle if traveling to and from Newark, JFK or LaGuardia are easy peasy when booked at my local airport.

Access to Cheaper Fares

Years ago, fares were much higher at my local regional airport. In the past few years, fares have become competitive with larger airports because operating expenses are lower.

And budget carriers like Breeze that fly in and out of smaller airports offer dramatically lower fares than the major airlines.

Disadvantages of Flying from a Regional Airport

The convenience of booking flights at my regional airport comes with some disadvantages.

Not Many Flights to Choose from

Flight options are fewer, so I have to be more flexible about my arrival and departure times.

Connecting Flights

Nonstop service to my destination is often not available, and I need to connect in a hub city, like Chicago or Charlotte. This extends my travel time.

Don’t Expect Restaurants and Shops At A regional Airport

Westchester County Airport has a small restaurant; it’s never open when I’m flying. And there are two tiny grab-and-go markets for essentials like morning coffee.

Be Prepared for Drama in the Event of a Delay or Cancellation at a Regional Airport

Several years ago, my JetBlue flight to Puerto Rico was canceled at the last minute. After waiting and wondering, the airline put passengers in limos to LaGuardia to catch a later flight. It was a hassle but also an adventure.

The One Big Drawback to Regional Airports

If you fly internationally, your local regional airport may not be an option for you. Although some offer international flights, primarily to Canada, Mexico and the Caribbean, most don’t.

You can book a connecting flight through a hub city to travel internationally. I haven’t done it because I prefer to travel on nonstop flights when going abroad to minimize possible flight delays or cancellations.

Do the Pros of a Regional Airport Outweigh the Cons?

I always include my regional airport in my Google Flight searches. When the fare is competitive and the travel time works for my trip, I choose the regional airport option.

Because it’s close to my suburban home, I never have to deal with traffic. I sweep in for my departure without long security lines. And, on the few occasions when I check a bag, there’s no wait because there’s only one carousel. I don’t know how they manage the arrivals, but I’ve never waited longer than 15 minutes for my luggage.

Why It’s Worth It

Air travel is inherently stressful because so many variables you can’t control impact your experience. By choosing to fly out of a regional airport, I minimize my stress and that’s priceless.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Which regional airports have you used? What was your experience? Would you recommend or not?

Dating over 60 is brave.

Tender.

Hopeful.

And yet – sometimes the hardest part isn’t the men.

It’s the people sitting across from you at lunch, clutching their wine glasses, nodding sympathetically while inadvertently dragging your love life into the gutter.

We’re going there.

If you’re dating over 60, or even considering it, your friends – and your kids – are absolutely influencing how you feel, how you choose, and how long you stay stuck.

Sometimes in supportive ways. Sometimes… not so much.

When Women Undermine Other Women (Without Meaning To)

I call it misery poker.

You know the game.

You share something hopeful:

“He seems kind, consistent, like a good guy.”

And instead of curiosity or encouragement, someone raises you:

• “Well, my friend dated a guy like that, and he turned out to be emotionally unavailable.”
• “Men our age don’t really change.”
• “Just don’t get your hopes up.”

Suddenly, the table is full of cautionary tales. Everyone’s ante-ing up with disappointment. And optimism is the first thing to fold.

I have no doubt your friends love you. They’re not trying to sabotage you. They’re just letting off their own steam, trying to process their own pain, and recruiting you into emotional solidarity.

If you succeed, what does it say about them? Misery loves company is a cliche for a reason.

But when women repeatedly undermine other women’s hope, it creates a quiet agreement:

“Let’s not want too much.”

And that agreement will cost you at just the time of life that ALL your focus should be on what YOU want (finally).

The Danger of Outsourcing Your Dating Intuition

When you’re dating over 60, it can feel comforting to run everything by your girlfriends.

It’s even fun to send pics of a text thread and go through the play-by-play with your nearest and dearest in an attempt to understand what your potential suitors might be thinking.

But here’s the coaching truth:

Your friends can’t (and shouldn’t) make YOUR decisions. Your friends are not in your body.

They don’t feel your nervous system. They don’t experience your chemistry. They don’t know which compromises feel workable to you.

This is the time of your life when you should be honing your own intuition about your 3H needs vs outsourcing it to anyone who might be more comfortable if you stay single.

Take a moment to consider where your friends might be coming from when they fill your head with horror stories, warnings, and general negativity about men or dating, and then decide if you want to “go down” with them.

If you decide to stay on “Team Hope” you have two choices: get your friends on board with a clear request or hang out with different people. (This is why I have group coaching with Master the Art of Love.)

In group coaching, women learn how to:

• Support each other without projecting
• Speak honestly without undermining hope
• Normalize fears without amplifying them
• Celebrate wins without jealousy
• Call each other forward – to honor our ideals

And Then There Are Your Kids…

Ah yes. The adult children. Hopefully, yours are loving and well-meaning, but it doesn’t make things less complex when new love comes on the scene.

When you start dating over 60, your kids may react in surprising ways.

Some feel competitive:

“I’ve been your main emotional support. Where do I fit now?”

Some feel possessive:

“I don’t want to share you.”

Some feel wary:

“I don’t want you hurt again.”

“What if HE spends my inheritance?”

And some feel uncomfortable with the idea that you’re still a sexual, desiring woman.

(That one doesn’t get said out loud, but it’s there.)

So they ask pointed questions. They raise eyebrows. They offer “concern.” And suddenly, you’re managing their feelings instead of honoring your own.

I think the thing children need most, even adult children, is to see you happy. Subconsciously, it teaches them that happiness, into old age, is possible for them too. So they may try to convince you (and themselves) they’d be happier for you to avoid risk, but the truth is, everyone would be happier if you found a partner and healthy love.

Your kids don’t need to approve of your dating life, but it sure would be nice to have their support. And since you can’t choose new kids, this challenge requires a frank conversation about your vision for your future and how love and your relationship with them fit into it.

Modeling self-determination and joy as you age is not selfish; it’s probably the greatest gift you can give them.

Women Can Be Powerful Allies in Love

From my experience coaching groups of women together, they can also be extraordinary forces for good in dating.

The right girlfriends:

• Celebrate your courage
• Ask thoughtful questions instead of planting doubt
• Help you slow down so you can assess your 3H criteria soberly.
• Care about your safety and your happiness

Healthy female support sounds like:

• “How do you feel with him?”
• “What are you learning about yourself?”
• “Does this align with what you said you wanted?”

Not:

• “Men are terrible.”
• “You’re probably settling.”
• “Don’t get excited.”

The difference may seem subtle, but it’s profound.

Dating over 60 already can feel a bit lonely as you search for the right places to find eligible people with your interests, or dare to go into the uncharted territory of online dating.

So if you want to feel less alone and more grounded and have more fun, you will pay attention to surrounding yourself with hopeful, positive voices. Veer towards those who make you feel more excited to date and away from those who build your fears. It’s simple to figure out…

A Question to Ask Yourself

Before you share your dating life, ask yourself:

“Is this person invested in my growth or in keeping me company in disappointment?”

And before you take advice, ask:

“Does this expand me or shrink me?” Do you admire how this person approaches love and/or dating?

You can control what you share with whom and who you let whisper in your ear.

Here’s me whispering: love has no expiration date. Now is the best possible time for you to muster up all your courage and hope and go for it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Can you count on your girlfriends to support your dating life? Have you experienced a situation where adult children or girlfriends ruined a possible relationship?

Varicose veins are one of the most common vascular concerns affecting women ages 50–60. While often perceived as cosmetic, they reflect deeper structural and functional changes within the aging venous system. Chronic venous insufficiency (CVI) increases significantly with age, particularly in post-menopausal women, due to hormonal decline, vascular remodeling, and reduced connective tissue integrity.

Let’s take a deeper dive and review the clinical aromatherapy perspective of why essential oils may provide supportive care by promoting venous tone, supporting microcirculation, and modulating inflammation – when used within a safe, evidence-informed framework.

Essential oils contain very powerful active compounds that when used correctly can have a positive impact on supporting and promoting healing to the body without the use of strong medications or surgeries. It’s an alternative healing modality that many have found useful with their everyday routines. 

Why Varicose Veins Increase After 60

Varicose veins arise primarily from chronic venous insufficiency, in which venous valves become incompetent and allow retrograde blood flow. Over time, venous hypertension causes vessel dilation, wall weakening, and visible tortuosity.

Age-related factors include:

• Decreased collagen and elastin production
• Prolonged standing 
• Structural weakening of vein walls
• Reduced calf muscle pump efficiency
• Cumulative gravitational stress
• Post-menopausal hormonal shifts

These physiological changes collectively impair venous return and increase vascular fragility.

Hormonal Influence: The Post-Menopausal Shift 

Estrogen supports endothelial function, vascular flexibility, and nitric oxide production. Following menopause, declining estrogen levels contribute to:

• Increased vascular stiffness
• Reduced endothelial responsiveness
• Elevated inflammatory markers
• Impaired blood flow 
• Slower tissue repair

These changes influence both venous wall integrity and surrounding connective tissue, increasing susceptibility to venous insufficiency.

An Evidence-Informed Clinical Aromatherapy Perspective 

The American College of Healthcare Sciences (ACHS) emphasizes evidence-based aromatherapy practice within its professional training programs. American College of Healthcare Sciences prepares clinical aromatherapists to critically evaluate peer-reviewed research on essential oil chemistry, pharmacological mechanisms, inflammation modulation, and circulatory physiology.

It is important to clarify that:

• There are currently no large randomized controlled trials specifically demonstrating that essential oils reverse or cure varicose veins.
• Most available research examines essential oil constituents in vitro, animal models, or in broader inflammatory and circulatory contexts.
• Clinical aromatherapy applications for venous insufficiency are therefore based on pharmacological plausibility, traditional use, and symptom-supportive outcomes rather than disease-modifying claims.

Within an ACHS-aligned evidence-informed model, practitioners are trained to:

• Assess the biochemical profile of essential oils
• Review available safety data
• Evaluate mechanisms such as anti-inflammatory activity and microcirculatory stimulation
• Apply conservative dilution strategies
• Integrate aromatherapy with standard medical care

This framework strengthens clinical reasoning while maintaining professional and ethical integrity.

Essential Oils Supporting Microcirculation and Venous Tone

While not curative, certain essential oils possess properties that may support vascular tone, local circulation, and inflammatory balance.

Cypress (Cupressus sempervirens)

Traditionally regarded as a primary venous tonic in aromatherapy practice, cypress essential oil contains monoterpenes such as α-pinene associated with vascular modulation and anti-inflammatory activity.

Clinical rationale:

• Supports vasoconstrictive tone
• Assists lymphatic movement
• Reduces sensations of heaviness

Helichrysum (Helichrysum italicum)

Helichrysum is valued for its diketone content and potential microvascular-protective effects.

Clinical rationale:

• Anti-inflammatory support
• Capillary resilience
• Tissue repair facilitation

It is often selected in formulations addressing bruising, stagnation, and fragile skin.

Rosemary ct. verbenone (Rosmarinus officinalis ct. verbenone)

The verbenone chemotype provides milder stimulation appropriate for mature skin.

Clinical rationale:

• Enhances local microcirculation
• Provides antioxidant activity
• Supports connective tissue vitality

Geranium (Pelargonium graveolens)

Geranium oil contains citronellol and geraniol, compounds associated with anti-inflammatory and mild vaso-modulatory effects.

Clinical rationale:

• Fluid balance support
• Hormonal transition relevance
• Skin elasticity enhancement

Its inclusion is particularly appropriate in post-menopausal protocols.

Lavender (Lavandula angustifolia)

Lavender provides foundational anti-inflammatory and nervous system support.

Clinical rationale:

• Reduces localized inflammatory response
• Supports tissue repair
• Enhances blend tolerability
• Modulates stress-related vascular tension

Stress and sympathetic overactivation may exacerbate vascular constriction; lavender’s calming properties provide indirect vascular benefit.

Safety and Dilution for Women Over 60

Aging skin demonstrates reduced barrier integrity and dermal thinning. Conservative dilution is essential.

Clinical recommendations:

• 1% dilution for routine use
• Maximum 2% for short-term therapeutic protocols
• Avoid aggressive rubefacient oils
• Conduct patch testing

Contraindications include:

• Active deep vein thrombosis
• Severe edema of unknown origin
• Open venous ulcers
• Anticoagulant therapy without physician consultation

Aromatherapy should complement, not replace medical management. You can always consult with your healthcare provider when starting a new health and wellness protocol.

Integrative Care Model 

Optimal venous support includes:

• Graduated compression garments
• Daily walking to activate the calf pump
• Pillow leg elevation
• Lymphatic massage 
• Anti-inflammatory nutrition
• Adequate hydration

Within this integrative model, essential oils may enhance comfort, support tissue tone, and improve perceived heaviness and fatigue in the lower limbs.

Clinical Aromatherapy and Lymphatic Support

From a clinical aromatherapy standpoint, certain essential oils may complement lymphatic massage by:

• Supporting fluid movement
• Modulating inflammation
• Enhancing microcirculation

Commonly selected oils include:

• Cupressus sempervirens (venous and lymphatic support)
• Pelargonium graveolens (fluid balance)
• Rosmarinus officinalis ct. verbenone (circulatory stimulation)
• Lavandula angustifolia (anti-inflammatory support)

Blends should remain at 1% dilution for mature skin, using gentle upward strokes toward the heart.

Integrating Dead Sea Salt with Aromatherapy

A supportive protocol for women over 60 might include:

• 1–2 cups Dead Sea salt in warm water
• Optional addition of properly diluted essential oils (never added directly without dispersant)

Circulatory-supportive oils often selected include:

• Cupressus sempervirens
• Lavandula angustifolia
• Pelargonium graveolens

Always dilute essential oils in a carrier oil or dispersant before adding to bath water.

Avoid salt baths if there are:

• Open venous ulcers
• Active infections
• Severe edema of unknown cause
• Advanced heart disease

If swelling is sudden or painful, medical evaluation is necessary so speak with your physician or healthcare provider before starting a new health and wellness at home protocol.

Conclusion

The increased prevalence of varicose veins in women over 60 reflects hormonal decline, connective tissue remodeling, and cumulative venous stress. While essential oils do not reverse structural venous disease, an evidence-informed clinical aromatherapy approach such as that emphasized by the American College of Healthcare Sciences supports their responsible use in promoting microcirculation, modulating inflammation, and enhancing tissue vitality.

Through thoughtful formulation, appropriate dilution, and integration with conventional care, essential oils such as cypress, helichrysum, rosemary ct. verbenone, geranium, and lavender can serve as supportive adjuncts in the management of age-related venous concerns. Always work with a health care coach or master aromatherapist to support your daily routine for recommendation and protocol use. 

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What do you use aromatherapy for? Do you suffer from varicose veins? What has worked to lower your concerns about blook circulation in your veins?

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When I was younger I kind of liked the idea of being a little old lady. Sitting by the fireside knitting with my cat snuggled on my lap, wearing my purple hat when out shopping with my rickety old-lady trolley. Having family pop round offering to do little chores or tasks. It all seemed quite blissful.

Only…

It wasn’t like that at all! Firstly, however hard I have tried, I can’t knit. Well, maybe in a straight line, but how many six foot scarves can you have? Secondly, as a person who loves to travel, I had to get my head around QR codes and digital passports.

Also, though I very much enjoyed popping in to my local bank to check my balance, it seems many of them are closing, so I have had to get to grips with online digital banking.

Starting with Something Small

The car I have owned for 10 years always has the wrong time when the clocks change. The thought of changing it made my brain hurt. Push this button, hold for 3 seconds, push the up/down button, hold for 3 seconds…

So for six months of the year I was on the wrong time.

But last week I said, “No more!” While waiting in a car park, I googled ‘how to change the time’. I followed the instructions, wrote them down for future reference, and changed the clock in seconds. I was jubilant!!

Paris

I recently heard that shopping trollies in Paris were the ‘must have’ accessories for everyone. Parisians love bottled water and, of course, wine, and it has become very chic to roll your trolley into a shop, fill it with bottles and trundle off. No heavy lifting, just a confident stroll through the Champs Elysees. 🙂

Well, if it’s good enough for 30-somethings in Paris, it’s good enough for me. So, I purchased a beautiful rose gold shopping trolley, and I love it! Cool, sophisticated, stylish (the trolley, not me!) and does the job perfectly. 🙂

Style

Of course, you should dress how you want at any age, but I definitely consider comfort more now that I am older. No more high heels killing my feet, or insufficient clothes that left me shivering. However, you don’t go to bed one night and wake up old, so why have an old lady wardrobe?

My clothes nowadays tend to be a mix of thrift shop, supermarket, high street, and the occasional splurge on something gorgeous! As I have saved money with reducing my overall clothing budget, I don’t feel guilty so just enjoy whatever I buy.

Comfort, ease of wearing, and texture, are highest on my list, so I tend to opt for natural fabrics such as cotton, linen, silk, and the occasional cashmere. My wardroom is quite basic and minimalistic, meaning anything I don’t wear is recycled at the local charity shop, allowing me more space for a little shopping. 🙂

Stay Curious

I love to stay curious. I find learning new things, or going to new places, so exciting. YouTube has become the replacement to my TV, and everyday, I am watching people trek around the world, restore chateaus, live on canal boats, safari in Africa, learn new skills…

The other evening, I popped into my local pub for a bite to eat on the way home. I was sitting on a sofa in front of the log fire, when a group of ladies came in and asked if I would mind them sharing the sofa. We sat there chatting for over an hour and these incredible women, all 70-plus, told me about their global travels, caravanning around Europe, their businesses, blogs, life stories… It was so inspiring! 🙂

Just Be Whoever You Want to Be

I think what I love most about being 60-plus is that it’s full of surprises. I can be whoever I want to be, reinvent myself, travel, study, become an entrepreneur, write a book. I can dress in any style I like – or change it every day. 

My hair can be purple if I want, but I love the mix of grey and blonde I have. I eat what I want, when I want, and drink red wine with meals. I do get a little tired sometimes, but either see a show or have a meal in the afternoon, or have a little siesta before going out in the evening. Very European. 🙂

Pioneers

Us Baby Boomers were pioneers back in the 60s’ and 70s’, and we are still pioneers now. Leading the way for the next generation to explore boundaries, take risks, learn, grow, and make their life anything they want it to be!

An old lady? At 60 we are just getting started!

Join the Conversation:

What has surprised you about being over 60? Have you changed how you live? Are you still as curious?