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Let’s face it. Real estate agents get a bad rap. But there are some very good ones out there helping buyers and sellers every day, and doing a great job of it. It’s like any other profession. You have to find them.

So how do you find an honest real estate agent to buy or sell your home? Good question!

Look Online

One of the first places to start your search is online. Everyone is online today looking at listings, getting beeped by search engines, asking AI, and reading ads, news, whatever.

It’s only natural to look online for a real estate agent, as well.

Look, but be smart about it. A lot of people say a lot of things, but that doesn’t always make it so. Check your facts.

If you do a search for pet-friendly homes and someone claims to be a pet-friendly realtor are they really, or are they just posting listings? If you’re a golfer and someone claims to be a realtor who specializes in golf communities, does he walk the walk and talk the talk? Buyer beware!

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Everyone has a cousin or friend who is a real estate agent. Trust me, I hear it all the time.

The fact is most agents in Florida do not work at real estate full time. They are part-time realtors and, as such, are not in the trenches every day. They may or may not be able to help you. They may not be able to help if a problem arises or even know how to write a contract.

You need a REALTOR® who knows the market and knows it well – not only the market but the local market you’re looking to buy or sell in.

I stress local here. I can’t tell you how many times I see agents take listings and buyers from three or more hours away. It doesn’t help the buyer or the seller for several reasons.

First, if the agent is not local, they are often not familiar with the local market. If they are not from the local area, how would they know if houses sell for more or less in certain subdivisions within a neighborhood? They wouldn’t! I can tell stories of agents from out of the area that cost their sellers tens of thousands of dollars! And if I was a buyer, how can an out-of the-area agent know the ins and outs of different subdivisions?

As a buyer or seller, this doesn’t benefit you in any way. It’s a negative.

It’s a negative even if they promise they will save you a few bucks, like a buyer calling the name on the sign.

Buying a home is probably the most expensive purchase you’ll make in your lifetime. This is not the time to be penny wise and dollar foolish, as they say.

Not All REALTORS® Are Created Equal

Not all REALTORS® are created equal. Many people do not know that. All real estate agents are licensed to sell real estate, but not all real estate agents are REALTORS®.

To be a REALTOR®, you must belong to the National Association of REALTORS® and subscribe to the Code of Ethics. There are 17 Articles within the Code of Ethics that include Duties to Clients and Customers, Duties to the Public and Duties to REALTORS®.

As a REALTOR® you promise to adhere to the Code of Ethics. As a real estate agent, you do not have to adhere to anything.

So, to find an honest real estate agent, it would be my suggestion to go with a REALTOR®. Of course, you still have to talk with them but more about that later.

Read Reviews to Find an Honest Real Estate Agent

After you find someone who looks like they might be a good fit for you, read their online reviews. Reviews are posted everywhere – Google, Facebook, their websites and more. And while we’re talking websites, that brings me to my next point.

You want someone with a heavy online presence today. Why? Because the days of reading newspapers are almost gone. By the time you pick up a real estate magazine, those ads are weeks old. The houses have been on the MLS and property portals for weeks.

You also want someone with a heavy online presence, because for sellers they can promote your listing more. For buyers, you know they’re up on the times and you can get a good idea about who they are just from reading.

Talk to Realtors

You may get lucky and hit it off with someone on your first call. You never know. You may have a gut feeling that this is right and it probably is.

Be prepared to talk to a few agents. See who you feel most comfortable with. After all, you will be in this together from the beginning to the end and, likely, long after.

You’ll be working as a team.

You need to like and trust this person.

Do you get a sense they’re honest and will work hard for you?

You should because that’s important.

Be on the Same Wavelength

You need to be compatible with your agent. Some people just naturally hit it off, and with others it’s a struggle.

Buying or selling a home is stressful enough. The last thing you want is to work with someone in a relationship that is strained.

Go with your gut.

You can tell if an agent has integrity and is honest, two traits that should be high up on your list.

Is Your Real Estate Agent Accessible

Accessibility is another thing you should be looking for. Is this agent accessible?

We live in a world that is 24/7 these days. You want someone you can reach in the evenings, or on weekends, if you need them. Not someone whose message says they “return calls between 11:00 and 12:00 and 4:00 and 5:00 pm” or, better yet, within “24 hours.”

Or says, “for a quicker response, text me.” Seriously? They’re sitting right there. Pick up the phone! (Is it just me or all women over 60?!)

Real estate agents should be accessible to their clients. Realizing it is a stressful time for buyers and sellers, agents need to be patient and have compassion. Sometimes buyers or sellers just want to talk – something is bothering them. Will this agent be there for you? It may not be that second but someone who returns calls and texts as soon as possible.

Summary of How to Find an Honest Real Estate Agent

While real estate agents have a bad rap, you can still find a REALTOR® with integrity, who is honest, transparent and will work hard for you. Someone who is willing to go to bat for you as either a buyer or seller.

You deserve it. Why settle for less?

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Are you a woman over 60 looking to buy or sell a home? Are you planning a move in the near future? Do you have any questions that might help make your home purchase easier? Let’s talk about it!

Assertiveness training for women over 60 isn’t about becoming forceful or confrontational. It’s about reclaiming your voice, honoring your needs, and communicating with confidence and kindness. It’s about bringing your “A-game” to medical appointments, family conversation, or other everyday interactions. No matter what activities your life includes, strengthening your assertiveness skills can help you to make this golden chapter more empowered, peaceful, and self-directed.

Introduction to Assertiveness Training for Women over 60

For many women over 60, this stage of life brings a powerful shift: fewer obligations, clearer priorities, and a growing desire to live with authenticity. Yet even with this clarity, speaking up for your needs can still feel uncomfortable. Many of us were raised to be agreeable, accommodating, and “easy to get along with,” which means assertiveness wasn’t encouraged; in fact, it was often discouraged.

This can make it even more difficult to learn how to be assertive when it doesn’t come naturally.

What Assertiveness Really Is, and What It Isn’t

Assertiveness is simply the ability to express your thoughts, needs, and boundaries clearly and respectfully. It sits in the healthy middle ground between passivity (staying silent, avoiding conflict, or putting yourself last) and aggression (pushing, demanding, or overpowering others).

Many women over 60 discover that they’ve spent decades in patterns shaped by caregiving, cultural expectations, or trauma, patterns that made self‑advocacy feel risky or “selfish.”

But assertiveness is not a personality trait you either have or don’t have; it’s a learnable communication skill. With practice, anyone can strengthen their ability to speak up, say no, be assertive, set boundaries, and ask for what they need without guilt.

Why Women Over 60 Often Struggle with Assertiveness (Through No Fault of Their Own)

Being assertive can be challenging as many of us in our 60s and beyond grew up during a time when being a “good girl” meant being polite, quiet, and self‑sacrificing.

These early messages often became lifelong habits: avoiding conflict, prioritizing others’ comfort, and downplaying your own needs.

Add decades of caregiving roles (raising children, supporting partners, managing households, or caring for aging parents) and it’s easy to see how your own voice may have been pushed to the background.

Trauma, chronic stress, or emotionally demanding relationships can also make direct communication feel unsafe.

But the beauty of this stage of life is that we still have the wisdom, perspective, and emotional clarity to rewrite old patterns.

Learning assertiveness skills for women over 60 isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about finally giving yourself permission to be fully you. It’s about learning how to stand up for yourself, stop people-pleasing and honor your own needs the same way you honor the needs of others.

The Benefits of Assertiveness Training Later in Life

One of the most empowering parts of life after 60 is the clarity that comes with experience. You know what matters, what drains you, and what you no longer want to tolerate. Strengthening your assertiveness skills at this stage can transform many everyday interactions, from medical appointments to conversations with adult children, coworkers, or friends.

Many women find that assertiveness training helps reduce resentment, prevent emotional burnout, and create healthier, more balanced relationships.

It also supports better decision‑making in areas like health care, finances, and caregiving, where clear communication is essential.

Most importantly, becoming more assertive later in life reinforces a powerful truth: your needs, preferences, and boundaries are just as important as anyone else’s.

Learning to speak up with confidence and kindness can make this chapter of life more peaceful, grounded, and self-directed.

Common Myths about Assertiveness Training That Hold Women Back

Many women over 60 hesitate to embrace assertiveness because of long‑held myths that simply aren’t true.

One common belief is that “it’s too late to change,” but communication skills are learnable at any age.

Another myth is that being assertive means being rude or aggressive. In reality, assertiveness is about clarity, respect, and emotional honesty.

Some women fear that setting boundaries will create conflict, yet healthy boundaries actually reduce conflict by making expectations clear.

And perhaps the most damaging myth is the idea that your needs matter less than others’. This belief is rooted in decades of social conditioning, not truth.

Challenging these myths is a key part of learning to be assertive as a woman over 60, and it opens the door to more authentic, fulfilling relationships.

Simple, Beginner-Friendly Assertiveness Training Skills You Can Start Using Today

You don’t need a complete personality overhaul to become more assertive. Small, consistent steps can make a meaningful difference.

One of the simplest tools is using “I” statements, which help you express your needs without apology or blame. Practicing phrases like “I’m not available for that” or “I need more time to think” can make setting boundaries feel more natural.

Another helpful skill is learning to say no without over‑explaining; a clear, calm “No, that won’t work for me” is enough.

Paying attention to your body language (steady eye contact, relaxed shoulders, an even tone) can also reinforce your message.

These beginner‑friendly communication skills build confidence over time and make self‑advocacy feel more accessible.

Assertiveness Training: Real-Life Scenarios Women Over 60 Face

As women over 60, we often find ourselves in situations where clear communication and healthy boundaries are essential but challenging.

• Adult children may assume you’re always available for childcare or emotional support, even when you’re exhausted.
• Medical appointments can feel rushed, leaving little room to ask questions or express concerns.
• Friendships may become one‑sided, with you doing most of the listening and very little of the sharing.
• And volunteer or community roles can quietly expand until they take more time and energy than you intended.

Assertiveness skills help you navigate these moments with clarity and confidence. Saying, “I’m not available today, but I can help on Thursday,” or “I need more information before making a decision,” allows you to stay kind while still honoring your limits.

These small shifts can dramatically improve your relationships and your sense of personal power.

Assertiveness Training: How to Build Your Confidence

If speaking up feels awkward or even scary, that’s natural. Many of us were taught that prioritizing our needs was selfish or impolite.

The discomfort you feel is not a warning. It’s just a sign that you’re practicing a new skill.

Confidence grows through repetition, not perfection. Start with low‑stakes situations: ask for a different table at a restaurant, request clarification from a doctor, or tell a friend you need to reschedule.

Pair these actions with self‑compassion, reminding yourself that learning assertiveness is an act of healing, not confrontation.

Over time, your nervous system adapts, and what once felt intimidating becomes second nature.

Don’t be surprised if this turns to be easier than you expected. Women in our stage of life often learn assertiveness faster than others because we bring wisdom, perspective, and a deep desire for authenticity to the experience.

Your Voice Still Matters: Maybe More Than Ever

Reclaiming your voice after 60 is powerful and possible. Becoming more assertive is about finally giving yourself permission to express your needs, preferences, and boundaries without apology.

When you communicate clearly and kindly, your relationships become more honest, your stress decreases, and your sense of self strengthens.

You’ve spent decades caring for others. This chapter of life is an invitation to care for yourself with the same dedication. Your voice matters. Your needs matter. And learning assertiveness now can make the years ahead more grounded, peaceful, and deeply fulfilling.

Let’s Start a Conversation:

What messages about “being a good woman” did you grow up with, and how have they shaped your communication style? Where in your life do you find it hardest to speak up: family, friendships, medical settings, or somewhere else? What’s one boundary you’ve set recently that made your life easier or more peaceful? If you could become more assertive in one specific area this year, what would it be?