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5 Reasons Why Walking Is My Best Thinking Time

5 Reasons Why Walking Is My Best Thinking Time

My alarm goes off every day around 4 pm. It’s not a loud alarm, but only I can hear it. It’s my internal walking alarm, letting me know it’s time to get ready to head out. Time to change, put on my shoes, fill a bottle with water, and grab some bubble gum and a bit of money. I always chew gum on my walk, and bubble gum is my gum of choice. Maybe it’s an odd habit, but it’s just part of my walk.

I don’t go for a walk to think, but it happens anyway. Of course, there are many health benefits to long walks, but the one that continues to surprise me is the thinking time it provides. That’s why I prefer to walk alone, with no distractions.

Walking creates the mental and emotional space to let my mind wander. It almost always drifts toward problems, issues, or decisions I need to make. Our best thinking doesn’t happen sitting at a desk or on the sofa. It happens when we’re moving and not forcing ourselves to focus.

This might sound counterintuitive. Isn’t it easier to concentrate when we’re sitting still? In theory, yes. But in reality, sitting often comes with interruptions. The phone rings, a message beeps, the kettle whistles, or someone asks for something. And just like that, the thought you were holding disappears.

When we’re out walking, or even doing something repetitive like hanging laundry, we settle into a rhythm. That’s when thinking becomes easier and more natural. Here are five reasons why.

1. The Mind Finally Slows Down

When you’re walking, there’s nothing competing for your attention. No screens, no interruptions. Your body falls into a steady rhythm, almost on autopilot, and your mind has space to catch up.

Thoughts that felt scattered begin to settle. Instead of jumping from one idea to another, they start to line up. It’s not forced. It just happens.

2. Problems Feel Smaller When You’re Moving

Problems can feel overwhelming when you’re sitting still, especially when you’re turning them over again and again. It can feel like facing a wall with no way around it.

But once you start moving, something shifts. The problem doesn’t disappear, but it changes shape. It feels less fixed, less final. Movement seems to open the door to possibilities.

There’s a line from a Leonard Cohen song about cracks letting the light in. That’s what it feels like. The situation is still there, but it no longer feels impossible.

3. Ideas Appear When You’re Not Looking for Them

It’s often when you stop trying to solve something that the answer appears.

On a walk, ideas seem to arrive without effort. A solution begins to make sense. A decision becomes clearer. Or something entirely new comes to mind that you hadn’t considered before.

You’re not forcing anything. You’re simply giving your mind the space to do what it does best.

4. Your Mood Lifts Without You Trying

As your thinking becomes clearer, your mood often follows. There’s no dramatic shift. It’s gradual. A sense of heaviness starts to ease. When you begin to see possibilities, even small ones, it changes how you feel.

You may not have a full solution but knowing there are options is often enough to lift your mood. That quiet shift can make a big difference.

5. You Get Clarity

By the end of your walk, you may not have all the answers, but you usually have direction. Things feel more manageable. You can see your options more clearly. Sometimes the decision is to act. Other times it’s to wait. Even that is clarity.

And with clarity comes a sense of calm. You’re no longer stuck in the same loop you started with.

Closing Reflection

Walking isn’t complicated or expensive, but it quietly supports both thinking and well-being in a way that’s easy to overlook.

Feeling refreshed after a walk can seem like a contradiction. The body may be a little tired, but the mind feels lighter. Some of the weight has been lifted. You return with a clearer head, a better perspective, and a sense that things are, at the very least, manageable.

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Another article to read might be Is Your Walking Speed a Health Red Flag? How to Test and Improve It.

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Kristin Cavallari’s Black Strapless Leather Midi Dress on WWHL

Kristin Cavallari’s Black Strapless Leather Midi Dress on WWHL / Kristin Cavallari Instagram Fashion April 2026

I am currently in the process of moving and I had WWHL on in the background while doing some packing. I kept getting distracted though, because Kristin Cavallari was on and she is reality TV royalty that you just can’t miss out on. I was loving all of her takes and I was also loving her black strapless leather midi dress. It’s such a classic KCav look that we all need to shop because you’re sure to make waves anytime ya wear it. 

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Amanda Batula’s Black Leather Jacket and Sneakers

Amanda Batula’s Black Leather Jacket and Sneakers / Summer House Fashion Season 10 Episode 12

Amanda Batula heads out the door to Common Grounds in a black leather jacket and purse, Adidas sneakers and her best-selling denim shorts on tonight’s episode of Summer House. These pieces are classics that are great to have because they pretty much live on forever. And thankfully they’re mostly still in stock. So we can scoop them up to stay by our side this season and beyond (cough).

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Ciara Miller’s Grey Sequin Plunging Dress

Ciara Miller’s Grey Sequin Plunging Dress / Summer House Season 10 Episode 12 Fashion

Ciara Miller puts on a plunging grey sequin halter dress for a night out at Common Grounds on tonight’s episode of Summer House. This eye-catching piece is guaranteed to head turns, even if you’re not Ciara. So if you’re looking to bring the heat like Ciara, plunge into this pretty dress and steal the spotlight.

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Restorative Travel in Hoi An: A Wellness-Inclusive Stay at Namia River Retreat

Restorative Travel in Hoi An A Wellness-Inclusive Stay at Namia River Retreat

My partner and I sit and sip tea while the Namia River Retreat staff handle registration. A golf cart spirits us up to our villa, backing onto the Thu Bon River, on the quiet Cồn Ba Xã Islet. I look forward to the time I’ll spend at the Resort’s Lumina Spa.

Why Namia River Retreat Is Hoi An’s Top Wellness-Inclusive Resort

Luxury Villa. Photo credit: Merle Rosenstein.

How Do the Villas on Cồn Ba Xã Islet Add to the Wellness Experience?

Tatler Asia named Namia River Retreat one of the Best 100 Hotels in the Asia Pacific for 2025. Tatler Vietnam also recognized Namia River Retreat as the Best Wellness Retreat in Vietnam for 2025. Pedaling past the 60 luxury villas, spa, restaurants, pools, and yoga studio, I can see why.

At Lumina Spa, treatments are part of the package, not an add-on. An in-house herbalist blends plant‑based healing, Indigenous knowledge, Chinese influences, and region-specific botanicals. In fact, Namia River Retreat offers the only wellness-inclusive all-pool villa experience in Hoi An, a UNESCO World Heritage Site, on Vietnam’s central coast.

Every villa has a host. Our host, Nam Anh, the quality assurance manager, takes us to our home for the next two days. “I was part of the opening team almost two years ago. It’s been very rewarding to see how things come together, says Anh. There are 60 pool villas in total, including six for families.” As Anh says, “What makes it extra special is that the rate includes the daily 90’ wellness journey.”

A fully equipped children’s playroom. Photo Credit: Merle Rosenstein.

The spacious villa catches the light with cream-colored walls, white bedclothes, and soft accents. The neutral tone invites calm and carries into an open-concept living area. Floor-to-ceiling windows show off the private pool. After getting settled, I head for the Spa.

Pro Tip: Try the sunken hot tub after a dip in the private pool.

Herbal Healing Rituals and Plant-Based Therapies at Lumina Spa

I’m at the Lumina Spa, wrapped in a robe in front of the apothecary. Bowls of dried herbs, powders, and petals sit atop a wooden counter. As Anh says, “It’s probably my favorite place in the whole resort. These are examples of the mixtures our in-house herbalist produces for our guests. When you have the consultation, the herbalist can share which kind of herbal mixture can help you.” Anh also explains, “Our herbalist comes from a long line of herbalists before him. There are nationally recognized bodies that certify them. These are all noninvasive treatments.”

Herbalist mixing herbs for treatment. Photo credit: Merle Rosenstein.

Anh’s knowledge of herbal medicine comes from his family. “My grandma also takes a bath on the eve of every Lunar New Year with a specific type of leaf. For our family, it’s a hot bath infused with coriander leaves. Growing up, that’s what I got used to doing as well.” This experience is being shared with Lumina guests.

Uyen, one of the Spa’s staff, mixes mugwort, perilla leaves, and jasmine, all grown on the property. The jasmine scent is intoxicating. My masseuse, Ly, gently applies the herbal mixture all over my body. My skin tingles. After a Vichy shower rinse, I relax and rehydrate. Following a deep tissue massage, I’m ready for food.

Spa treatment room. Photo credit: Merle Rosenstein.

Pro Tip: Be sure to try the tea.

Authentic Vietnamese Cuisine Inspired by Hoi An’s Trading Heritage

Two restaurants on the property serve authentic Vietnamese food with local ingredients.

Meals at the Merchant Restaurant harken back to Hoi An’s ancient trading port and merchants from the East and West. The Fisherman Restaurant sources seafood and herbs from nearby Cham Island.

After my meal, it’s pool time. As a swimmer, having my own pool is a dream I’ve had for years. Palm trees and native grasses surround the private patio. The gurgling sound is soothing. Fishermen pass by, searching for their daily catch. After dinner, I try the sleep yoga. It works. Guests can also take a boat to Hoi An’s Old Town, take a sunset cruise, or pedal around Hoi An’s countryside.

The Fisherman Restaurant. Photo credit: Merle Rosenstein.

Pro Tip: Build yoga into your stay.

Restorative Travel Moments That Redefine Wellness in Vietnam

On May 1, 2026, as part of the Dinner Duet series, two top chefs will combine their talents at the Merchant, Namia River Retreat’s riverside restaurant. Chef Olivier Corti of the Michelin-selected Le Comptoir in Da Nang and Chef Viet Pham of Namia River Retreat pay tribute to Hoi An’s trading port history, with exotic spices, and memories of cosy home kitchens.

What to Know Before Visiting Namia River Retreat

1. Expect a Wellness-Inclusive Stay with Daily Spa Treatments

Namia River Retreat isn’t a typical resort where spa services are add-ons. Treatments at Lumina Spa, herbal applications, Vichy showers, and deep tissue massages are included in your stay. Plan time each day to take advantage of the wellness programming.

2. Prepare for a Quiet, Riverfront Setting on Cồn Ba Xã Islet

The resort sits on a peaceful islet on the Thu Bon River, accessible by golf cart once you arrive. It’s intentionally serene, with 60 private pool villas and minimal foot traffic. If you’re seeking nightlife or crowds, you won’t find them here.

3. Bring an Appetite for Local Vietnamese Cuisine

Both restaurants focus on regional ingredients from Hoi An, Cham Island, and the surrounding farms. The culinary program is deeply rooted in local heritage.

Frequently Asked Questions:

1. What Makes Namia River Retreat the Top Wellness-Inclusive Resort in Hoi An?

Namia River Retreat includes daily spa treatments, herbal therapies, and access to Lumina Spa as part of every stay. Guests don’t pay extra for massages, body treatments, or wellness rituals, making it one of the only wellness-inclusive, all pool villa resorts in Hoi An.

2. Are the Villas at Namia River Retreat Private?

Yes. Each villa has its own private pool, floor-to‑ceiling windows, and a spacious living area. Villas back onto the Thu Bon River or lush gardens on Cồn Ba Xã Islet, offering a quiet, restorative setting.

3. What Types of Spa Treatments Are Offered at Lumina Spa?

Lumina Spa blends Vietnamese herbal traditions, Indigenous knowledge, and Chinese influences. Treatments include herbal body applications, Vichy showers, deep tissue massage, and plant-based therapies using ingredients grown on the property.

4. What Dining Options Are Available at Namia River Retreat?

The resort has two restaurants: Merchant Restaurant, which draws inspiration from Hoi An’s ancient trading port, and Fisherman Restaurant, which features Cham Island seafood. Both focus on local ingredients and traditional Vietnamese flavors.

5. Is Namia River Retreat a Good Choice for Couples Seeking Restorative Travel?

Yes. With private pool villas, daily spa treatments, quiet river views, and immersive wellness rituals, the resort is ideal for couples looking to reset, reconnect, and experience restorative travel in Vietnam. There are also six villas for families. Guests can also choose a 3, 5, or 7-night stay, which includes in-room and spa wellness treatments, cultural experiences, wellness classes, and more.

My stay at Namia River Retreat spoiled me. I now want my own pool everywhere I go.

And included daily herbal spa treatments. I now know what to look for in a wellness resort. Namia River Retreat sets a high bar.

Author’s Note: This trip was sponsored by Namia River Resort, but all experiences shared in this article are personal.

Looking for wellness retreats closer to home? Check out our article 9 Wellness Retreats in the USA.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you stayed at an all-inclusive resort? What was special about it? Do you book spa treatments for yourself? What do you look for in an all-inclusive resort?

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