Dorit Kemsley’s Blondie T Shirt on Instastories

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Blondie Dorit Kemsley was totally rocking her, well, Blondie t shirt on Instastories yesterday.  I love a rock band tee because you can just throw it on and create a classic vintage-inspired look that will probably never go out of style. Or even pair one with a blazer to wear for night out and let it work it’s magic as a convo starter when someone sees it and it sparks a memory of their favorite song. Which in my case totally doesn’t apply as I’m not very educated on the classics and won’t know what you’re talking about, but nonetheless for someone else it could make a night.  Either way it’s always nice when someone takes notices and likes your shirt, just like I did with Dorits.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Photo Credit: @doritkemsley

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With more time and less opportunity to socialize face to face during the pandemic, there couldn’t be a better time to put your dream of learning a second language into action.

Learning a language online gives you the opportunity to get a great mental work-out and share thoughts with people around the world who are in this crisis as well.

I never could have predicted that this daily practice would save my sanity in the long days of confinement we are going through. Now that it’s here, having these online relationships makes me feel as if I’ve been preparing for the pandemic for years.

Language Exchange Appointments Create Routine

When I set the weekly language exchange appointments up with Pedro, Auxi, Lourdes, Pepin, Ricard, and Javier four years ago, they gave me a reason to be up, dressed, and caffeinated by 9:00 a.m. when I was unemployed. Without these daily standing appointments, I might have lolled around my big feather comforter until noon. 

As the years went on, I continued the sessions as a way to prepare for life in Mexico, my current headquarters. And now, these daily practices with language partners from Europe have kept me going. Every day, I know I will have at least one face-to-face conversation with a person I don’t live with.

What You Need Is Enthusiasm

You absolutely do not need to be conversationally fluent to practice a second language on Skype through one of the many online language exchange and teaching sites. As long as you are enthusiastic and positive (i.e., excited to be there), you will make a great student.

When I started learning Spanish at age 57, several of my practice partners spoke much better English than I spoke Spanish. Now that I’ve studied for a few years, my Spanish is better than the English of a few of my newer practice partners.

But none of that matters. We all relish mastering a second language together and exchanging cultural insights like the college students we used to be.

Ultimate Beginner? No Problem!

If you are a beginner-beginner in learning a second language and want to be a part of the online learning boom, there are things you can do to bring yourself up to speed.

One of the best things to do as a principiante is to hire a bright, happy young tutor on a site such as italki to teach you until you develop the confidence to become a member of a language exchange site. 

When you search for a tutor from italki or a similar site, look at how the students rate each teacher. Tutors will work hard to make your session rewarding and earn a great rating.

You might prepare for these lessons by picking a topic and looking up the vocabulary. You can try writing out a half dozen sentences or questions such as “tell me about your home” (or in our current situation, “tell me about your last visit to a restaurant”). 

While lots of fun, speaking a second language can be more draining to brand new students than you might think. Most people can concentrate well for only 20–30 minutes at a time. So, for your first sessions, try hiring a tutor for no more than 30 minutes a few times a week so you can absorb more of each lesson.

Language Exchange Sites

Once you have learned the tricks of Skype and can engage in simple conversations with paid instructors, you can graduate to one of the free language exchange sites and practice freestyle with other students like you. 

Free and Paid Option

Free exchange sites such as My Language Exchange or Conversation Exchange have thousands of members; people who will help you with your second language in exchange for help with their English. They also offer a paid option that runs from $6.

Search Options

On some sites, such as My Language Exchange, you can search for practice partners based on age, sex, and country they live in. I like to practice in the morning, so I practice with people who live in Spain, where there is a 6–8 hour time zone difference.

To find language partners through membership sites, simply reach out through the site’s messaging system. I may reach out to 10 people for each practice partner I recruit. In a language exchange, you normally speak each language for 30 minutes (during the pandemic, my sessions tend to run longer.)

Native English Speakers Are Sought After

As a native English speaker, you have a real advantage in finding practice partners. People all over the world need English skills to advance in their careers. Many retired people take up English as a second language, especially Europeans.

Right now, my practice partners include a homemaker in Seville, a marketing executive in Barcelona, a schoolteacher in Madrid, and a college professor who lives outside Valencia. All but one of them are over 60 years old.

Don’t Disregard Non-Native Speakers

When reviewing website members to whom to reach out on these sites, don’t discount people who speak your chosen second language as a second language themselves. They can be great as potential practice partners, especially if you are a beginner student because they use fewer idioms and slang.

Use Some Sort of Structure

There are dozens of ways to structure your exchange sessions. You can agree to read easy stories to each other to practice pronunciation. You can use grammar exercises easily found online through sites like Mansion de Ingles or Saber Ingles. You can take songs in both languages and try to translate them. The opportunities are endless. 

Language Exchange and Covid-19

Every day, my language exchange partners and I exchange information on how the Covid-19 is affecting our cities and lives. Europeans have reacted a bit differently from how we did, demonstrating the effect culture has on how people respond to a crisis.

After that update, we move on to topics that bring smiles to our face and make us laugh – things we can still share, even alone in our homes.

Ultimately, you will develop vocabulary to have more robust conversations. When you demonstrate that you really care about their progress and are enjoying yourself, everyone will want to practice with you. 

Happy learning!

What language do you want to learn? Have you tried previously or are you an ultimate beginner? Please share any experience you have with language exchange platforms!

The ‘honey do’ list may be growing shorter the longer we ‘shelter in place’ as we wait for the COVID-19 crisis to pass. From the look of recent news reports, we could be staying at home for a while.

At my house, my husband has detailed his car. I’ve cooked enough meals to last for a week. Every bit of laundry is washed, folded, and put away.

Let’s face it. There are only so many tasks we can busy ourselves with while we wait out the ‘stay at home’ order.

Here’s the reality.

Much of the activity around the house is activity without lasting results. The car will need to be washed soon enough. Meals need to be prepared once the current inventory is consumed. Laundry is a ‘rinse and repeat’ activity for all of us.

Instead of cleaning out drawers, organizing the pantry, swapping jigsaw puzzles with the neighbors, or binge-watching movies on television, here’s a bright idea:

Take on a few simple tasks each day that can have profound value by making an unexpected situation just a bit softer and gentler when it really counts.

In just 20 minutes a day, you can assemble time and potentially life-saving information that can make a difference in the clutch moments. Here is what I refer to:

Medications List

Compile a list of your medications and those that your live-in partner, spouse, or parent takes so you are empowered to share it with a medical provider if asked.

Important Passwords

Know the login password to your partner’s cell phone so you can access important contacts, just in case it is crucial to deliver a message to those who need to know.

Investment Accounts

Know how to access your investment accounts, just in case you need to tap them for any reason. That means knowing the login and the password.

Utilities in All Properties

Learn how to turn off the power, water, or gas at all the homes you own, just in case there is a flood or other utility emergency.

Credit Card Info

Write down your credit card numbers so if you are the victim of identity theft, you can quickly respond by cancelling your accounts, saving time and helping to minimize your aggravation.

End-of-Life Wishes

Have you had the conversation with your family about what your final wishes are? Having been married to the love of my life for more than 30 years, I confess, we didn’t have that conversation until a couple of years ago.

Three women I know had their lives turned upside down by sudden disease, divorce, and death. That got me thinking about what I would want for my own end, just in case. It occurred to me that I didn’t know my husband’s wishes in that regard either.

One day, I just asked him, “If something happens to you, and your hope of having a normal life is gone, what do you want me to do about it?”

He said, “Put me out to sea on an ice floe, I’ll fall asleep, and let’s call it good.”

He said it with humor, and we had a good laugh. That simple question started a conversation that went much deeper as we came to appreciate and understand how either of us would approach the end of life.

Knowing each other’s wishes means that we can honor them when the time comes. That’s a whole lot better than not knowing what to do and running the risk of doing the wrong thing at such a crucial time.

These are my suggested six vitally important tasks you can take on today to make dealing with a crisis just a little bit less chaotic. That beats doing laundry every day of the week for the lasting and profound value completion brings to every member of the family.

There are more tips within the Get Your Act Together: Getting Started Template that is my gift to you and to anyone you know who may benefit from it.

Are you prepared to deal with a crisis? What did your preparation entail? Can you take some time to prepare while in self-isolation? Please share with our community and let’s have a discussion!

Lisa Rinna’s Fendi Logo Slides on Instastories

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Yesterday was Mother’s Day and the day we spend gifting the ones who gifted us life. While I merely gifted my mother with my presence this year, Lisa Rinna’s daughters gifted her with a pair of Fendi logo slides.

Now I’m not a mother myself, but I am a nanny so I know that you are on the go a lot. I also know that it sometimes always takes a bit longer to get out the door with kids. Usually it’s nice to be able to have shoes (hopefully) in their spot by the door that you can just slide ’em on quick and on your way! So the gift of extremely fashionable slides to a mom is pretty perfect.

Even if you don’t have kids they’re a great shoe. I’m usually always running behind and in a hurry trying to get just myself out the door, so I love a cute slide that gets the job done. I mean if we’re going to be late we might as well be fashionably late, right?

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Photo Credit: @lisarinna

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