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How to Grow Out Your Bangs—Gracefully

It’s a pattern as regular as the tides: one season, we commit to getting bangs…and by the next one, we’re officially over them. But it’s way easier to cut a fringe than it is to grow it out, as anyone who’s ever done it knows all too well. But you don’t have to suffer through awkward hair stages anymore—we’ve put together the ultimate guide to how to grow out your bangs quickly, easily and gracefully.

Get a trim—and commit to getting them regularly.

We know—it seems a little counter-intuitive to advise you to get haircuts as you’re trying to grow your bangs out. But trust us: getting your bangs trimmed regularly is not only a good way to keep your hair healthy, but it also helps blend your fringe into the rest of your hair far more easily.

Sweep them sideways.

The easiest bangs to grow out are side-swept bangs—not only do they blend into your hair beautifully, but they’re also far less annoying than trying to cope with hair slowly growing down straight into your eyes. Part your hair to either the left or the right (depending on your preference), comb your bangs straight forward from the crown, then swoop them to one side.

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It may also help to dampen them, then blow them out with a round brush to help “train” them into their new direction. It may help to comb a little bit of hairspray through them, too, especially if you have issues with cowlicks or flyaways.

Embrace accessories.

The hardest thing about growing out bangs is that your newly long hair gets in your eyes and drives you nuts—but it doesn’t have to be that way. Bobby pins and barrettes are great ways to keep your fringe pinned out of your face; we especially love these Scunci No-Slip Grip Oval Bobby Pins for their sleek, non-basic looks AND the way they grab—and hold—even the slipperiest bangs. Simply swoop your fringe to the side, add some pomade or hairspray to keep the hair in place, then slide in a pin to keep it in place.

Scunci No-Slip Grip Oval Bobby Pins

Scunci.

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You can also embrace our favorite classic accessory, the headband, to keep those bangs pushed up, up, and away. Make sure the band you choose isn’t too tight—that leads to headaches—and stick with dark colors for a grown-up look. We love these ribbon-look headbands from Sweaty Bands; not only are they the perfect width, but they also stay put like a dream.

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You can also get into wearing scarves in your hair, which is always a gorgeous look. Use a rectangular scarf (or fold a square scarf into a long band) to push your bangs back, then adjust it so that the scarf sits about two inches back from your hairline, and tie it at the nape of your neck. Let the ends hang long for a retro-inspired look, or tuck them underneath for a sleeker style.

Use lightweight (but hardcore) styling products.

You don’t have to shellac your hair down to keep your fringe under control—being selective with your products will really help. Use a light pomade concentrated at the ends to give definition and hold without lacquering your locks to your forehead.

 

 

R&Co. Aircraft Pomade Mousse

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We swear allegiance to the R+Co Pomade Mousse, which gives great hold to even fine hair without weighing it down or gluing it together. If you have thicker hair, or you’re prone to flyaways, hairspray is a great bet. Spritz it through your bangs and comb them into place if you have a lot of short, recalcitrant ends, then finish with a final blast to seal everything in place.

Kerastase Laque Noire Hair Spray

Kerastase.

We love the Kerastase Lacque Noire Hairspray because it never feels crunchy or hard in our hair—but does it ever keep it in place!

Embrace dry shampoo.

Not only does dry shampoo keep your hair grease-free, it also adds texture and hold—which is exactly what you want when you’re growing out a fringe. Spray a little dry shampoo through the lengths of your bangs, then style as normal; you’ll be amazed at how much more obedient they are!

Twist, tease, and braid.

Pins and headbands aren’t your only fringe-styling options. Once they’ve gotten long enough, you can also braid your bangs to keep them out of your eyes, like Carey Mulligan did back when she was growing out her pixie cut bangs.

carey mulligan braided bangs

Alberto E. Rodriguez/Getty Images.

You can also twist them to one side and hold them in place with a bobby pin. Another easy trick for styling growing-out bangs is to lightly tease them at the back to make all the hair stick together, then pin the hair to one side in a retro-inspired miniature pompadour. Simple, elegant, and chic!

Be patient!

When you have bangs, it feels like they grow insanely fast—you have to trim them every other week to keep them in check. But when you’re trying to grow them out, it seems like it takes FOREVER for them to grow half an inch. Don’t despair! The no-bangs life is worth living; it just takes a few months for your hair to reach a noticeably longer point. It may not happen overnight, but it will happen…we promise. In three months, you’ll barely remember that you had bangs at all!

An original version of this story was published in September 2015. 

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Friendship and Coronavirus: Listening Is the New Being There

Friendship and Coronavirus Listening Is the New Being There

Two years ago, my partner and I set out on a journey. The idea was to build an intentional community of friends. A virtual home for those whose values, likes, and dislikes were compatible with ours.

A Friendship Comfort Zone

Companionship and communion are close to the top of anyone’s bucket list for a happy life. So, as we took our first dip into the retirement pool, moving to a resort-like city 500 miles to the south, finding friends became our noble goal.

Sadly, the endeavor turned out to be a tall order not easily achievable. Because making new friends isn’t quite as simple as it once was.

At our age, friendship is an intellectual and emotional pursuit. It’s hard work and time-consuming. Filled with expectations and disappointments.

A heavy-lift, as opposed to the more casual process of friendships developed while young, when we’re a clean slate. More casual. Devoid of cynicism and lacking an insular world view that takes root long before retirement.

Nevertheless, after some trial and error and more than a few heart-to-heart talks between us about process, we began to see some encouraging results.

Until friendship became an extreme sport.

Enter the Coronavirus

Covid-19 changed everything.

Isolation. Exposed vulnerabilities. Twisted nerves. A stock market meltdown. More questions than answers.

What could go wrong with a plan to develop friendships while wearing masks and gloves?

Zoom technology might be fine as a touch-base with long-term friends. But for humor, irony, and a bit of urban repartee, nothing can replace a couple of hours at a neighborhood Starbucks, huddled over a small café table.

In other words – the old normal.

The New Normal of Friendship

The new normal, of course, is distancing.

But sheltering-in-place is tantamount to absentee ownership in a new friendship. Relationships don’t feed themselves. They rely on attention. Forward movement. A deft hand at keeping in touch so that a burgeoning friendship doesn’t detach from the mother ship.

One needs to get past that deer caught-in-the-headlights reaction to our current global situation long enough to focus on conscientious communication. Relearn phone skills. Excel at FaceTime. Be Zoom-approachable.

But just how do you do that? How do you build and sustain relationships under such forced conditions?

You Listen

You take advantage of moments that can only be recognized by deep engagement. Listening is the new being there.

Listening with care and wisdom for what’s underneath a friend’s words. Fears that might be filling an awkward pause. The meaning behind a fairly innocuous sigh. The frustrations articulated less by words and more by changes in tone and tenor.

Listening is where the opportunity for intensified friendship lives during the time of the virus.

Then You Talk

The benefits of being there are bountiful.

If you’ve listened well enough, your responses will demonstrate emotional availability and provide safe-harbor for a friend’s expression of insecurity, gratitude, and a willingness to get closer. Deep listening is a way to provide affirmation anchored in truth. An understanding of what makes the other person tick.

And the best part about listening is this: there’s no prep necessary.

Like good actors who live in the listening moment on stage or in films, you’ll automatically know how to respond with authenticity. Listening will drive your best instincts forward and give you confidence to leave behind your inhibitions as you explore new territory with someone you want to get to know better.

That’s the gift of being there.

Do you practice being there for your friends? What does that look like? What is the new normal for your friendships? Please share your thoughts and let’s have a discussion.

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With many of us fantasizing about what we’ll wear out to lunch with our girlfriends post-quarantine, Sonja Morgan’s super cute floral ruffle dress on this week’s episode of RHONY serves as the perfect inspiration. But considering we have no idea when that day will come, we also highly suggest investing in the Sonja By Sonja Morgan Off Duty Knit Set (or emailing Sonja to send it back if you’re Leah).

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There are various sizes and techniques when it comes to hair rollers. Choose a jumbo size (such as 1 1/2″) for larger, more bombshell waves. For curls that look like you were born with them, grab a multi-pack with various sizes because that’s how curls grow naturally. If you have shorter hair or want tighter curls, try flex-rods on wet hair. They even work without heat and people have been loving them for decades.

We rounded up some stellar hair rollers to shop when you’re in the mood for some curls. Even if you already have a natural curl pattern, these hair rollers can smooth out frizz and create healthy-looking waves without a ton of heat damage. It’s a win-win.

Our mission at STYLECASTER is to bring style to the people, and we only feature products we think you’ll love as much as we do. Please note that if you purchase something by clicking on a link within this story, we may receive a small commission of the sale and the retailer may receive certain auditable data for accounting purposes.

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According to the previews for this week’s episode of The Real Housewives of New York City Luann de Lesseps dazzles onstage during a performance at a comedy show. And while one might say that she was definitely feeling the vodka crowd that night, based on the embellished bird bomber jacket she was wearing you can definitely also say that she was feelin’ Jovani.

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