Dorit Kemsley’s Black Blouse with Gold Buttons

Season 10 Episode 5 Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Fashion

Dorit Kemsley said that when doing business the reputation you have is whatever was last said about you. Well Dorit certainly knows how to take care of business in her black blouse with gold buttons, and let that be the last thing said about her, well until tonight’s episode actually airs.

As for her new restaurant business venture, I’m intrigued to see what she does with the design of her Buca di Beppo room. We all know she can put together some lewks (even if it does take multiple hours of glam and photo shoots) so we can assume that this gift will only translate into commercial interiors. Plus, if it’s anything like the inside of her closet, the inside of this restaurant will be looking extra fab AF.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

Click Here To See Her Sold Out Balmain Black Blouse

Originally posted at: Dorit Kemsley’s Black Blouse

Great style has nothing to do with age. It’s possible to enjoy style and fashion no matter how old you are. Sometimes, though, women who reach a “certain age” think that there’s little point in dressing up anymore. We might think, “Who would stop and bother to notice an older woman’s ensemble?”

But it’s time that we fought back against feeling invisible. And clothes are the easiest way to let your personality shine.

When it comes to fashion for older women, how do we keep clothes versatile enough to be used differently each time?

Join us in discussion with fashion blogger, Jodie Filogomo, who shares some style secrets on looking good with what you already have in your closet.

One Dress, 4 Different Styles

A simple dress can hold the key to unlocking your fashion creativity at any age. For Jodie, dresses have so much potential.

She says, “I know, a lot of times we think, ‘Well, you can only wear a dress as a dress,’ and it’s not very versatile.” But on a cruise trip with her mom and stepmom, the three of them each brought a dress and were able to use it four different ways!

Aside from wearing a dress simply as such, you can change it up by putting on a cardigan or a jacket over it. So that’s two! Or you can take a top and wear it over your dress so it ends up looking like a skirt. You can also show only the top portion of the dress and wear it as a blouse tucked inside a different skirt.

The point is, your dress doesn’t always have to show all the way – you can take a shift dress and use it as a blouse or a skirt with other pieces.

Change It Up with Color

We know that fashion after 50 involves investing in plain staples. Indeed, it’s an important and useful tip regardless of your age. But how do you keep your clothes from looking too plain with black and white ensembles dominating your wardrobe?

Jodie shares that one key way is to incorporate color in your everyday getup. In fact, she says, you can wear the same black and white combo but with different toppers, accessories, or shoes.

For Jodie, it’s all about choosing a focal point. Similar to decorating a space, when styling your outfit, there should be a strong focal point that can attract the eye. Be it a colorful scarf, a statement necklace, or chunky earrings, the possibilities are just as many as the accessories you have in your wardrobe.

And for an unexpected look? Wear a cool beret to draw attention up to your face!

Fashion is boundless… and fashion for mature women does not have to be limited to plain, uninspiring clothes. While we’re not saying that you should run to a boutique to buy yourself some crop tops and torn jeans, there’s something empowering about keeping yourself stylish at 50, 60, 70, and beyond.

Do you have any other fashion tips for keeping your wardrobe fresh after 50? Please join the conversation and “like” and share this article to keep the discussion going!

A funny thing happened on my way to retirement. I became a humor writer. It wasn’t part of some grand plan. Rather, it was a serendipitous occurrence born from the acute terror of not knowing what I was going to do with the rest of my life.

No longer was I Dr. Susan, speech pathologist, adjunct professor, and consultant. The challenge of a full-time job had been replaced by the challenge of discovering my comfort zone in this new phase of my life.

I finally had the time to do all those things I always wanted to do – if I could only remember what they were. Salvation came in the form of a writing class for beginners. I had once been a good writer, and I wondered if I still had the stuff.

Jolly Goodness – It Was Still There!

It turned out I had a knack for creating humorous personal essays. In response to class assignments, I would turn inward, observing my own life with a comical eye.

I began writing about my marriage, about becoming an “older” woman, about friendships, the media, and about how, one summer, the birds ate my car. (The latter is a story for another day!)

Eventually, I created my own blog, where I continue to post my skewered takes on life, and have published two books. Who knew? So, move over Nora Ephron, Erma Bombeck, and Andy Rooney, and make some room for me!

In retrospect, I realized that humor had been an important tool for me even in my profession. As a practicing clinician, I worked in some pretty serious environments: hospitals, rehab centers, nursing homes.

My clients were adults who had acquired neurological disorders – such as a stroke or Parkinson’s disease – which affected their communication abilities and, in some cases, their cognitive functioning.

Employing a light touch before the hard work began was an effective ice breaker serving to establish rapport and putting the client, as well as family members, at ease. I think I knew, without knowing, the potential for humor to make human connection.

Oh, the Joys of Aging!

I borrowed the title phrase “Third Act” from a Ted Talk delivered by Jane Fonda in which she uses the term to refer to the last three decades of life, and all of the possibilities, as well as the vulnerabilities, therein.

It is a time in one’s life when it’s so easy to be negative. We become concerned about our wrinkles, our graying hair, about the Buddha belly that suddenly appeared where a flat stomach used to be.

We dread bathing suit season. Hearing aids and cataract glasses are our latest fashion accessories. We feel more susceptible to illness; perhaps some of our friends have already succumbed. We fear we are no longer relevant. So, where’s the punchline?

And speaking of punchlines, I want to mention the comedian Brett Leake, a stand-up comic who has muscular dystrophy. He coined an expression that, for me, has become inspirational: “When life throws you a punch, make punchlines.” Well, I wish I’d come up with that one!

That’s Not Funny. Oh Yes, It Is!

There is a growing body of research on the role of laughter in healthy aging. Some of the benefits include:

• An improved disposition
• Reduction of tension
• Lowered anxiety
• Increased energy
• Enhanced creativity
• Greater coping ability and resilience

My weapon of choice for facing Third Stage challenges has been observational comedy. This type of humor pokes fun at everyday life, often by inflating the importance of trivial things or by observing the silliness of something that society accepts as normal.

And while I’m not suggesting that we all audition for Saturday Night Live, I’d like to suggest some pointers we can include in our everyday lives, along with some examples.

Be Observant

We all look at the world in a variety of ways, but nothing is seen if we don’t look. So, don’t minimize the power of observation.

Laugh at Yourself

Share your embarrassing moments. The best way to take yourself less seriously is to talk about times when you took yourself too seriously.

Don’t Complain at Unfortunate Situations – Laugh at Them!

Look for the humor in a bad situation, and you will uncover the irony and absurdity of life. An example: I was recently involved in a fender bender where, fortunately, no one was hurt. But my car was badly damaged.

It was the other guy’s fault. No really, it was. He failed to observe a “Yield” sign. We were shaken up and inconvenienced, but while waiting for the police, I figured out a way to blame the entire thing on my husband! Writing about this helped to diffuse an otherwise upsetting situation.

Perspective Is a Key Factor

Keep things in perspective. Many situations in life are beyond our control – especially the behavior of other people.

Embrace the Power of Humor

Humor helps us look at our own imperfections, accept them, embrace them, and not take them so seriously. Another example: The outcome of my cataract surgery had good news and bad news. The good news: I could see better. The bad news: I could see better!

Use Humor as a Tool

Humor points out the absurdity of some situations and allows us to see them and ourselves in a new way.

Your sense of humor is one of the most potent tools you have for coping. Don’t let it abandon you when things go wrong. And always remember – the power of humor is no laughing matter!

How often do you laugh? Do you prefer to wine when you find yourself in a bad situation? How do you think things will turn out if you laugh instead? Please share a recent story that had you wondering whether to laugh or else!

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Though the primary goal of a self-tanner is to bronze and brighten the skin, a lot of the most talked-about formulas can also leave you high and dry, depending on your skin type. In my experience, I’ve found the most effective and visually gratifying options to be formulas enriched with nourishing ingredients that boost moisture retention and strengthen the skin barrier without causing breakouts or inflammation.

Some of my favorites include hyaluronic acid, glycerin, vitamin E and a slew of extracted oils—almond being my top pick. The gamut of options also offers a variety of textures, from soothing gels to SPF-infused serums to light-as-air mousse. Ahead are just a handful of top-notch formulas that dry skin types consider the holy grail of hydrating self-tanners. Slather on any of these and you’ll want to stock up fast.

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Sol by Jergens.

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Tan-Luxe.

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Supergoop!.

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Get more bang for your buck with this two-in-one transfer-free and fragrance-free self tanner that also provides broad spectrum UV protection.

Sisley Paris.

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The botanical ingredients in this gradual bronzing formula not only provide a more natural-looking glow but boost moisture and provide antioxidant protection too.

KORRES.

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My co-worker declares this beach-inspired formula the “best smelling self-tanner she’s ever smelled.” And she can’t be the only one who feels that way because it’s already sold out, but don’t fret—it’ll be back in stock on June 2.

Omorovicza.

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This citrus-scented face and body self-tanner is made with Plum Almond Oil to boost elasticity and tone, as well as Apple Pectin for increasing hydration.

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